Marriages ! ~ Wedding bells !

WEDDING BELLS!!
Wishing Ash-Abhishek a very happy married life!

Also our friend ramya will be getting married today - 23rd,which also happens to be amma appa's wedding anniversary! :) Wishing you a happy married life ramya! :)

Amma appa - i will wish them straight! ;)

This post is about marriages & do not be fooled that it may be about the celebrity wedding! :)

Marriage – hm…. Is it all about just getting committed to someone for the rest of your life(probably at least a greater part of your life )

ADHUKU MUNAADI !!! :)

Disclaimer: Am writing this post – just like that and nothing personal. Inga yaravadhu unaku kalyanama, Karumaadhiyanu aramichudadheenga please !!!;) Answer is no :) ! This is just an observation & something that had been of a great surprise, amusement & astonishment to me. Marriages – its success & failure.

These days some of the marriages FAIL – MISERABLY! The hard truth is that – they fail for no real good valid reason - but it fails because people fail to understand!

The number of divorce applications has increased greatly in the recent years.

Do not worry – this is not gonna be a brag, when you leave this page today – you will go in one piece :D I had been thinking & here are some of that ...

Wild thoughts:

#*Marriages are made in heaven!!
Some people are so talented that they make hell out of it ;)

#*Sometimes people say – “ They are both made for each other”

An incomplete sentence it is, I would say :P –“ They are made for each other to ……?“

Only they know! Be optimistic ;) and fill-in!

Yeah ,call me wicked!! :P But hey – unmai kasakumaam!

Ok jokes apart :) – Now coming to the serious question. Why do some marriages fail so MISERABLY?

#Well, in our Indian culture- we follow the custom to get married only once. I have no complains about that :D. So marriages are really serious here! Most of the time, in the excitement – what people forget is, you are actually committing the rest of the life to this person. Things that generally blinds-out this fact are – the expectations & attitude with which people look at marriages. I do not say – DO NOT EXPECT. Practically, no one would agree with me even if I say so.

#*You may look at marriage with lot of expectations – but do not fail to remember that the other person is also getting married for the first time :P with similar expectations in his/her mind!

#Before you expect something – in marriage it is always better to understand & do what the other person would expect from you. This way if both of them act – there would not be any issues at all. Do not give me individual’s right -crap. Sometimes you have to lose something in the process of gaining something else!!

#*Things one can afford to lose to make a marriage successful

-EGO,Abhorrence,Anger,Jealous,Pessimism,Doubt,Definitely not YOU!!

#*Things that do not deserve to be lost in the process

-Self respect,Patience,Loved ones, Friends & family,Your goal in life,Dignity,Optimism,Trust

And understanding couples always make marriages successful & thus making the loved one’s happy too…. spreading the happy wave around, it would propagate like a ripple. So will the worry wave propagate if the couple do not understand the responsibility.

People need to understand each other & also the society! Family is the smaller part of the society.Society is the larger Family. They may appear different – but on keen observation they become one & the same at some point. Hence one may not neglect the importance of marriage. There is no happiness without acceptance, tolerance, understanding & adjustment in any family! Marriage is no joke – they are very demanding & if people do not realize the responsibility that the society has bestowed upon them – no marriage would be successful for ever! Also it is not just about 2 individuals – but it spreads like a wave influencing many loved one’s- friends & family!

There are different ways in which marriages influence the society – or at least the concerned families.

~~One, where people make their marriage successful, of course with a considerable struggle & also make their loved ones happy.

~~Other kind – where they do not care about anyone & also each other – become a big head ache for all!

~~The third kind – where they do not bother about anyone else but only themselves.

~~Many more…. Many many more…

While these things keep be in one side we may have a new wing to discuss on – Arranged VS Love marriages!Am very consciously not getting deep into this topic....but an overview is...

Not all love marriages fail – not all arranged marriage succeed. According to me – it doesn’t even matter which category it falls in- as long as the couple understands each other & respects each other & their families. If this fact is neglected – marriages are not marriages but simply a ceremonial start for cheating the larger group- Society! Do not tell me you do not live for the society – You have to live in ONE! SO it is better to show some respect for the rituals that are followed.

Sometimes what really makes me laugh at is, in the case of love marriages/arranged marriages – some people who are not marriage-product get married & make each others life hell and sometimes they go to the extent of spoiling the loved one’s peace too, while some others who are so dedicated & respects each other and the loved ones - do not get married so easily. They have too many hurdles & sometimes they remain single for really long time. I only wish that – the later category’s patience is not checked upon! :)
Some people who get married with not much struggle fail to understand – what these people go through & they also fail to value people!

Things you get easily are not valued much sometimes – so true!!

Having seen few very dedicated souls being denied permission from parents/relatives to tie the knot – it really is sad to see!
After all life is to be happy & make others happy! Hope every person understands this!

I put a pause to this discussion here & continue on this later.

TO SHARE!!

Okay- here is something interesting that happened last week. Me & my Sister were traveling back home in train. At that time one of the known girl came towards us & interrupted our busy chat 7 asked “ May I sit here & join the great sisters?”

We both in unison said “ Please!! :) …..”

And we three got into some discussion… and it went on & on & on…..

And finally she threw this question “ Are you both gonna get married to brothers?”

LOL!!!

This is the umpteenth person asking us this question….

But I gave her this answer “ Marriage? LOL!! So are you planning to get married real soon … why did you shoot us with this question? ;)

Her: “ No yaar ! Marriage definitely no.... I don’t want to get married.

Me (thinking- Finally I get to see someone with like thoughts …..hm… Keenly observing her answer…but suddenly my sister shoots this question.)

Sis: Are you not interested in getting into any commitment with any guy or marriage?

Me:(DUH!! What dumb question is she asking... wanted to give my sis an electric current …. Because are they not synonymous when it comes to a relationship between a guy & a girl –getting married AND/OR getting commited. But boom!! The other girl froze me with her answer….)

Her: No yaar. Marriage is BIG BORE! I love to have relationship – but marriage is kind of boring.

Me: ( :O WHAT THE #@$%!! ???!!!! And I looked at my sis in astonishment. What is this girl talking…?? And then she puked some sick things which I feel are atrocious & would prefer not to discuss about in a public forum – preaching wrong, never! Then we kind of ended the conversation in total disagreement. And she finally gave a sort of yes answer – to getting married- it went like… )

Sis:She gave me the smile that read- “I toldyaaaaa….!! See, it was not a dumb question. The right question to the right person!” :P )

Her: Hm…okai. I may get married to a guy & it sure would not be any of the maami’s son or of any maami’s in my moms friends circle! It would be from shaadi.com or other such links where you find the type of person – preferably NRI , I may live with for some time…

Me: Sometime?? Oh dear!! You better remain single & continue your DD style Dating& Dumping….than ruin someone else’s life!!I spoke..) Poor guy! You better rethink about getting married !! ;)

Sis & Me (We deliberately moved onto to a different topic & then soon we departed.)

OOFFF!! So this is the idea some people have in mind about marriage..??!!! CRAP!!

And OH GOD! PLEASE SAVE THOSE NRI’S!!! ;)

More on this topic later – (NO…not the girl :P –TOPIC- Marriages!! )

A little thought:

If you & your spouse are in conflict about anything, the following guidelines may help

#Identify the problem from both perspectives with mutual respect for those perspectives.

# Brainstorm with abandon - give your creativity a chance to discover solutions that would make you both happy. Jot down ideas as you think of them throughout the day.

# Choose the solution that meets the conditions of the Policy of Joint Agreement best - mutual and enthusiastic agreement.

# Whenever a conflict arises keep in mind the importance of finding a solution that will deposit as many love units as possible, while avoiding withdrawals. And be sure that the way you find that solution also deposits love units and avoids withdrawals.

I shall return soon .....

~Maruthu.

@## College crisps ##@

College crisps ;)


Special APRIL!! - So the song ......

Note: Barbi has tagged me some time back. I opened the word file to sit & write on the topic, but trust me - am not able to come up with anything for this tag - right now am not in a position to think about & write on this topic. With last few days left in college life - i really am not able to write about what sucks :) doesn't mean nothing sucks! SO i would use this tag in a different way. I shall write about few interesting incidents that happened during my college days. Here it goes...

Am starting this new thread - under the LABEL called "College crisps" - to follow up. Past few days i had been feeling really very blue...final year blues . I was actually shocked to see me go through this. I was always conscious not to develop any attachment - emotional & sentimental with my college life. But DAMN!! Is this really me...?? I am so into the college life - class room funs - chat with friends - canteen - corridor walks- boring lectures , yet were interesting -Pranks in the class - SMS's during class hours - the silents giggles me & my buddy always had inside the library and the musudu librarian would be staring ;) which we hardly would mind - silly fights -Chinna chinna muranbaadugal - Very short lived anger - and Lab work - very interesting things that happened during the lab hours (too many to list ) - Staffs who were really entertaining :P - Answer sheets that never failed to surprise us - those lovely blue chairs near the lawn - our long chats after lunch - The huge old trees that i could not stop staring at every time we sat near library for the chat! And still too many to list here ... :)
Here under the college crisps are very very very few of the incidents that are always very special-may be funny too & unique incidents in my college life.
This being first post on this label- here is one very funny time we had!
# Once during open house me &my buddy had done a mini project to exhibit. Our project was really a big hit. Many of the staffs were so impressed that they wanted to buy it right away! But the interesting & funny thing that happened that day was - ....
The open house is a function that we organize for school children to come to our campus & explore :P the campus.On this day we exhibit our project & almost any department ~ anyone would walk in the labs & have a look at our project & we show them the demo. At this time we both happened to see too many funny people :) Alo alo we never make fun of people!! :P But funny people do make u have that giggles right? :P and me & my best buddy - sometimes we need not utter words- simply exchange of looks (Udaney ayduveengaley- through out the post naan best buddy best buddy'nu en blog'la solradhu is a GIRL!! Inga yaarum poraliya kelaprenu kelambidadheengapa!! Maruthu is a chamathu! ;) ) would tell us what is running in the other one's head :P and cha...damn! There were number of times both of us would burst out laughing - and all the people around would give the really strange look "Apdi ena dhaan pesipeengalo- kanaliye?"
We have heard a lot about the FLIRTS of SRM ...( Idhu yarayum pun padutha ila :) pasanga yaarum fight'ku ready aydadheenga :) But we have some real time big flirts in our college & i have managed to survive among a few of them. Namaku dhana dhu varadhey - so flirta aramicha kooda nama non-flirt'a akiduvom :P . So what happened is there was this person - he would always be bugging SOME GIRL.Me & my best buddy took turns in explaining -while other would do demo. Alternatively this was happening - now it was my turn. He was in vicinity & i told my buddy -
Me:" Oi... Vandhutaan dee. The guy we had escaped from all these days!! Oh damn... He is coming towards our table. Err..... Ok..ok.Amaidhiya irupom. Doggie- ippo ur turn ila :D Get up - explain panu - me the show demo :D "
Buddy : "hahaha....no darling. He is all yours :P Its your turn!"

By this time he had come to our table. Ok maruthu idhelaam vaazhkaila sagajam dhaan , get up get up!! Smile...pesu da'-- nu gotup'inen.

Me: Hello :) !
Payan:(Takunu kaia neetitaan - to shake hands . Namaku ivan flirtnu already theriyum. But hello sonadhuku kai neetradhu konsam too much :P and payan kai kuduthu oru murai release pana time akitaan'nu vera oru thozhi oru murai polambinadhu gnabagam vandhuchu.) Hello am 'X' from your department - don't u know me?
Me:(Dei una theriyamala?! Un peru nenapula ila...mudhala kaiya erakuda. Naanga kudukradha ila!'ngra style'a - With a polite smile VANAKKAM'nu oru kumbudu potuten :D Koopiya kaioda) Oh wow! Is it... Have seen you around. But dint know ur name :)
Payan: (kaiya thirupi neeti ) Hello - am X ... I do know u both. U r .... apdinu nama rendu peru perayum nachukaanu solitan!
Me: Oh cool...Namaste! :) Yes iam & this is (Apdinu soli nama buddy'a field'la erakiten :D Adhena rendu perum serndhu pana mini project - adiyo valiyo share pananum ila :P ...hehe )
Buddy: (Oru kadupsla she got up & said hi.... indha gap'la payan kai direction'a maathi ava kita neeta .....Naan avala parthen ena panranu! ) Namaste - Nice to meet you 'X'.
Me: ( :O ada makkaaaaaaaaa..neeyuma?! :P Cha paavam dee avan!! Rendu perum koopiya kaiodu oru smile kuduthom. Apram look exchange b/w us - adhaan soneney pesita... "naye! nee gali "-nu sona mari irundhuchu :D ) Hehe .... So X, i guess you are excited to see our project lemme not keep u waiting - here we go ... (Apdinu friendly'a oru few minutes sollitrundhaen project pathi. Payan kuruka kuruka neraya doubt ketaan... Good boy! I appreciate his arivu pasi :D ...Dhideernu mudira stage'la vadhu ONE SEC YAAR'NU comma potaan...)
Payan: I have seen you in campus many times yaar. Wanted to talk to you always :) I see you both together all the time. It is nice to see ....
Me: Is it? Interesting... Now you have spoken :) Shall i continue?
Payan: Talking? yes yes... :D ....I would love to
Me:( Dai...no da..Not ur type! Kelambu kelambu! ) Oh no X - i meant the explanation... we are half way through.
Payan:Arey - tell something about you ya. I can see that you both have done a brilliant work - which i would not understand for sure! :D
Me & Buddy : Exchanged looks that spoke - (Me: Ena dog ipdi mati vitutey...Nee escape agi enjoying'a iru matren unna! --- Buddy: Hehe... Ensoy ensoy....Sari ivana thorathalana mokai potu nogadichruvaan...think think..)
Me:(Apo en daa inga vandha apdiye parthutu kelambradhu!? ) You already seem to know enough about us X :) We shall skip the technical part- you can have a look at how it works . Now she would show you the demo. Buddy, you can take over now ( Manasuku ulla elaam orey butterflies :D ayya ayya....yaanai one time - poonai one time :D ..... apdinu naan side vaanga. She started)
Payan: Ok yaar- i dnt mind even if that part is skipped & we have a nice chat!
Me & Buddy : heee hee ...(apdinu asadu vazhinjom - then she showed him the demo! )
DEMO OVER !
Payan: Ok yaar - that was very nice work you both have done. So when can i meet you next time? Give me your number - will call you. I like talking to you ....
Me: ( :O Ivan boldayum thaandi mega boldu!! . Idhu varaikum manasukulla light'a oru uruthal...Oru velai already ivana pathi ketadha vechu thapa edhuthukramo- may b rude'a behave panramonu....but ippo dhan purinjudhu - not rude at all.) Ohh...It was nice meeting you too X :) We would meet when we happen to meet next time.....
(Adhukula..kalamulaanu oru kutties kootam came running....Yebbaaaaaaaaa Saami!!! kadasiya someone came for rescue!! )
Payan: OK yaar :D I sure will catch you sometime. Now i will leave- nice meeting you both,finally!
Me&Buddy: Yeah! It was nice meeting you too :) Bye X!
Me & Buddy ( exchanged the looks..... ippo ena solirupomnu you must be knowing.)

This is the first time we had to treat some one in campus like this. And his records show that he is someone to be kept at a very GREAT distance .
That day we both had so many interesting visitors & this guy was unique & interestingly allergic!
Disclaimer : This post is in no way intended to offend anyone. Especially pasanga edhum adi dhadila erangidadheenga :) We handled this poor chap the best way we could - without being rude or insulting - but simply siganalling & trying to show him the NO BOARD!! in the best gentle way we could ever have. And even now , if we happen to see him at a distance we do give him a smile :)

Ippo kelambren..... Am into the blues :) - innum yosika koodadhu. Thookam poidum :D This is a psychological way of approaching my blues.Am trying my best! Lets see...

The pic on top was taken that day while we tried pushing each other off the BLUE CHAIR - near the lawn i have mentioned about :)

I love my campus life & of course there were also some not very nice days! :) Which would all be shared with my lovely friends here .... :) Neengaley dhaan- pinadi thirumbi paartha?! :P

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"How weird are you?" -> That is the question :P
I know its been just few weeks/days back i wrote a tag..But what to do.. ;) i love it when friends tag ! HEHEHE.....
Naama Tag thedi poradhu illa ~~ vandha tag'a vidradhilla :P
So here goes the tag..the tag is about the weird thing about you.
Actually the tag is you have to tell 5 wierd things about you..But i am gonna share one thing here today..this is the about the
~Weirdest day I lived through
~Weirdest waiting....
~Weirdest bus travel....
~Weirdest hit....
~Weird - me & my strange GUT!

Achaa 5 weird… Sapaaaadi.Ippo taguku varen .

Now this is about an incident that happened during my early days of college,First year i guess.
We had this subject handled by the Mech., dept people! Mechanical department staffs are of two types - one group who are very practical & cool people. And the other group with the dumbest, few sadists. By the end of the semester we were asked to get the signatures of few staffs (Second staff, Third staff) whom we haven't met either, then the H.O.D’S signature. Since we were non- mechanical students we had no idea about the staffs there. Whole day was spent in searching them here & there. I wonder where they would disappear on a day where they are most wanted. They know they had to sign our records….but they were neither found in their desk nor in the staff room..and no where in the department. Myself & my best buddy- since we finished the work earlier we were the first from our department to hit the mechanical department for signature. We waited a whole long day – roamed here and there in search of who ever had the stamppad, seal, ink, pen….ooofffffffff and yeah most importantly those who had to sing this.Since we leave really early to college we don’t generally have our break fast which is wrong. By the time we went to the H.O.D’S room for his signature, he was gone! Seems like he had to go on round only today! The mechanical department H.O.D is really a nice person and a good friend too ;) He used to come in the same bus we both travel in.And day one of college - he was the first person (other than student) we both made friends with. He is really a nice person…but I wonder why he had to go for rounds today?! So, we waited outside his room for really long hours – we din’t want to take a chance. Already there was a rumour that H.O.D would not sign any more records from tomorrow – because it is late already! But we were not told about this at all.So we both stayed there- right there in front of his room to get the signature. After some tiresome waiting – there he was. He signed the record & then we both got out of his room with a relief like you just escaped an accident.From the morning till that time all that we did was- walk – search – talk- walk –search –talk- Oops in this confusion we forgot one thing- totally!Generally human beings have something called as food. They call it break fast in the morning-lunch in the afternoon & Dinner in the night!

And guess what – I looked at my watch to see if we shall go to the canteen for lunch. It was no time for lunch..LOL!!! It was almost 4:20 in the evening. And…previous night I had slept without having my dinner coz’ we had the record work to finish, morning break fast? No – wrong question to the wrong person- now no lunch…and the bus will leave in another few minutes! Oh my god! We both rushed to the college bus as fast as we could. Finally we got into the bus. And both of us gasped & found that there was no seat available to sit. Ok… we are used to standing in our bus. All the way from college which is at Potheri we were standing till we reached St.thomas mount. This was the last stop before ours.. but we do have a pretty long way to go.And from here , it was only our stop friends in the bus. Very few of them. I moved to the back end & my buddy moved to a few seats ahead. Now here is what happened. I know I was totally worn out for the day…. And really really tired- had no stamina to stand or walk. But did manage to get to the seat. When I was right about to sit down- the very sportive driver took a narrow turn (There are few of the drivers at SRM – they are like sports stars.SPEED is all that they know!Trust me..they drive so damn fast & never slow down ever while taking a turn.) I was almost in the seat but I hit my elbow hard on the window rod. Ada paveee….correct’a ippo dhan thirumbanuma..adhuvum ipdi kevalama. BOOM!!! It did hurt but not very much. Immediately after this something very weird happened! I was sitting in the seat & I knew was losing myself. I started to feel dizzy & it was a very strange feeling, I started to lose my vision & then I could not hear the people around me. I was hoping that I am going to faint. I know what you are thinking…I wasn’t in a position to call out anyone for help.Moreover all these happened real quick. I was totally losing my consciousness – well that what it seemed like! I thought ”Aha..Namaku ticket kedachachu pola irkuey. ..!!” When this was slowly happening… after a few fraction of seconds I was able to hear – really too low ,as in how would it sound if someone mutes ur music player & then slowly increase the volume from zero to a level that is considerably loud. And I went like Oh my gosh! I was suppose to be unconscious! (Faint)…now what!Then I started to hear my bus mates loud & clear…but still something else was not right. Am still not able to see!!!!

Yes! I was not unconscious but still am not able to see. I realized i am having full consciousness now. But OH! OH!!I can’t see a thing…not a spot of light or anything at all!! It was like some one has blind folded your eyes with a very dark black cloth & u have your eyes open. And by now- I am fully back to normal. Everything is loud & clear but am not able to see anything at all. Now I knew its time (or I did have time to ) to call out for my friends. I called out for my best buddy who was a few seats ahead. Then I called out for the other friends too…

They all came to my seat and this girl (Machi in our group- that’s wat she says. Pasanga elam machaan’na ponnunga elaam machi dhaney! :P ) from B.Arch who was really a koothu party(FUN lover) was the first –Machi-> “Enna machi? What matter? Any boochi??”

Me-> Adhelaam iladi – am not able to see!

- to my best buddy- Are u there dee….am not able to see!

(All this with my eyes wide open looking at the side where they are all standing!Bus is still on move)

Machi ->(Meranduta) At my buddy – machi iva thookathula pesuvala?

Her-> No dee….. no way! Never! @me- ey are u awake- enna pesra?!Look at me!

Me-> Ada goyaa! Adhaan dee solren. Am not able to see!! :P

Buddy-> Look thro the window- andha payan romba nerama inga parthutey irukaan..I guess he want to tell u somehting

Me-> Dha chee...nala naliye NOT INTERESTED! ....Inaku velayadadha dee.. Not able to see!! Unmaya! :)

In this gap our little friend from I.T deptmtn….Started to panic.. Enna dee achu ivaluku? Mornign kooda nala dhaney irundha…..(Almost in tears)

Me->“ Eye ey..ippo ena achu!! Chill dee… En ippo tension agura?!

Machi-<” Machi…Ena machi joke adichu – velayaatu kamichutrukey?! :O Nakala?!Tension agama…. Veladuriya machi?! U r playing a prank right!!

Me-> Ada koomutta!! Illa dee..Trust me I cant see a thing!

Buddy->(Tension agi poyi…sat next to me and started shaking me really hard)

Me-> Enna dee..why r u playing this..Listen am awake!WIDE AWAKE!! Stop shaking me! Am conscious & i know what am talking! Last stop’la madhu’oda kutta teacher was with me. She got down. Then this is what happened (I explained everything from getting hit in elbow…)Now am awake but not able to see! Got it…I thought you must all know what happened. In case I lose consciousness again.

I spoke all these very clearly with no shake- no tears in my eyes..no panic, no tension,no fear, infact I was totally cool. I wasn’t upset nor worried but only confused a little bit!

MACHI-> Hey! :O Iva theliva dhaan dee iruka!!! She is not sleeping…She is awake! That kutta was only sitting with her. I saw. @me- Ey unaku ezhuga varlaya dee? May I remind you that you r not able to see….Edho lab experiment explain panra mari solli mudikra… Is this ur soul in your body?! :O Alo… Konjam bayam irukanum machi!!

Buddy- > Sathiyama nee velaydala?!!! U r playing – illa dee.. For what u r saying this is not the way u wud be if it is true!

Me-> Adhaan matter’a….. Crying?! I don’t know… Edhuku dee azhanum….<

Anga aadi poi irundha enga senior takunu kitta vandhu pulse parthutu… Saaptiya? Lunch saptiya?!

Even before I could open my mouth to reply..

Buddy -> Oh my god!! She dint eat lunch , nor break fast & not even yesterdays dinner!

Senior-> Give her water first!

NO ONE HAD ANY LEFT!! But eureka!! I have :D

Me->Yeah ..i do! Can u get it? Its in my bag.

Then my buddy took out the Aquafina bottle! It was heavy…

Senior-> Adi paavi – its full! What are you…. You didn’t eat food- din’t drink water!! First you drink this water.

I had spent an entire day with nothing but oxygen. How did I forget to drink water? :O The bottle was full- not a sip did I have for the whole day until now.

I grabbed the bottle & drank & drank & emptied the bottle in one gulp.

Now I started to close & open my eyes …..Hoping I may be able to see…

(Even till now ...I do not know what bloody GUT that was, I dint cry nor was upset! People around me were.Slowly people around me started to scare me- they panicked ….but I never lost hope or felt like crying.I should have ! Come on – u cant see- u weren’t able to hear a thing..then u lost consciousness! Now u r back but you cannot see a spotof light! I knew what it was like to be blind-atleast for few minutes! I DO!! But nothing scared me that day. Engerndhu ivlo dhillu??

I lost consciousness- had a feeling that I may not survive this. I really do not know how I was like that! And what was that!!! How can something like this happen. You are only not able to see…. Haven’t heard anything like this before either. I do not have any vison problem either! There are absolutely normal – perfect!)

After that whole 1 litre of water – I was slowly able to see light!

And I went like … :O WOW!!

Me-> "I guess I can see now!! Yeah I am able to see things….."

Everyone -> Really? THANK GOD!!! Are you serious - really?!

Me-> ( Now very joyfully!!) Hey DOG!! Am able to see..i can see everything… i can see u dee naye! I can see u machi.....blah blah.. I yelled out all their names pointing each one!

Me-> Machi ivanga elaam ok..nee kooda tension aviya?? :P Kouthitiye dee!!

Machi -> It was u dee... How can i take it cool?

Ahaaaaaaaaaa!!! THOTUUTA!

I COULD SEE EVERYTHING VERY CLEARLY! Like never before!

What a weird day it was!! What a weird feeling it was!!

When we got down the bus – all of us knew it was the worst night mare. When we got down Appa was already at the stop, waiting in the car. Me & my buddy got into the car & appa asked the driver to drive back home. But sadhigari :P my buddy blurted out what happened that day!

Appa got really worried and he took me to our family doctor – another prank master who loves to play jokes! But he is an expert! One of the best doctors now & appa’s good friend. All I knew was – they are both gonna yell at me for skipping food. In one way it is true. I guess it was starving for so many hours that these things happened- otherwise it was just a mild hit. He asked me this first “ When was the last day you ate any food?”

I toldyaaaa .....“ He is a genius!” :P

I went like… “ Uncle- yesterday evening I had,,, then night… today in college- was planning to have lunch but it was time for bus!”

Appa & Uncle à [[Fumes]]

Uncle->” Fuel ilaama plane otalaamnu partha…adhu nadu vanathula poi- dumeeeeeeelnu keezha uzhundhu norungidum! SCIENCE!! U know?… po….poi ozhunga saapdu..ilati next time periya oosiya onnu kuduthu daily adhula unaku sapatuku badhila edhavadhu chemical kuduthu kutha vendiyadhu dhaan .You are perfectly alright . Do not worry. It is weakness! Only few days back you recovered from fever. How dare u dnt eat food for so many hours & I wonder how you survived even with out driniking water! ”

And he was talking for another half an hour .. and yeah! Appa- DOC- Amma all of them spoke what I had to hear! ;) And then later that day amma asked “ Why and how come you dint cry?” I did not have an answer... I just din't - din't feel like. May be I knew that everything is going to be alright.

It was the weirdest thing happened to me & weirdest way I had reacted to it!!!

There it goes! The weird Tag is done!

"Indha weird podhuma innum konjam venuma (:P) ???"

This is something i never wanted to recollect - but romba weird pathi solanumna idhu gnabagam vandhruchu. Btw, Naan already sila maadham/years munadi weirdo tag ezhudinen :)

Tag paninapram ezhudhama irukradhu nama history'laye illa.. Adhaan idha vera mari ezhudhinenen..

Ayo..romba mokkai potutena? :D Hehe…

chill chill...

Indha vaati post padicha elaarukum "COKE!!" :) -- Thambi kuduthutiya coke?! Also 1 more

Paatu kettutu ponga .. :) Adhu innum kodumayacheynu solreengala..appo pona post’la pota cake kettu poi micham iruku :P adha saaptu ponga!! :P

CHEERS!!

Elaarum ezhudurangalanu therila :) but panradhu en kadamaichey! (:P)

5 pera Tag pananumaam....

( Tag - idhu dhan actual task -- To write 5 weird facts about you. And tag 5 more people)

Last year i wrote the same tag- SAME TAG- But different content - You could read it in OCTOBER 2006 archive- second post! :)

Elaarayum Tag pana aasai :D but indha vaati maati vidradhu :P ~ Ivargal 5varai!

Dreamzz,
Harish-Mask,
Gopps-Devil,
Gops-My days
Jagan.

Elaarukum CAKE & introducing new lyricist :)

Netraiku birthday :D

Vaanga elaarum cake sapidalaam.... Eduthukteengala??Ippo saptuktey padinga :)

Elaarukkum vanakkam..... :)
Amaam..idhu romba rapid fast dhaan..
Pona post pottu 2 naal achu... adhukula enna post 'nu kekaadheenga :D ??

We have to move on..that is life... :)
Nethiku Birthday - and also innoru special post... :)
This birthday was simply amazing- rocking- ....... HAD A BLAST!! :D
Thanks to all those lovely hearts who wished :)

Night 2' varai calls - wishes... :) Thoongi oru vazhuya got up for the big day :)

Inga neraya peruku theriyadhu - marandhurupanganu nenachen..but quiet few some how made it that day .. :) Chat box messages were over whelming & also the comments :)
THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH!! :) - ungalayum dhaan - siringa.. :)

This Birthday was special - mukkiyama oru sila vishayangal(#)

#Last Birthday in student life...OK mela padipom...but ippo'dhaiku oru break ilaya...REGULAR STUDENT life mudidhu :P Mela padichaley irregular dhaney !! ;)

# Quitting teen last year- this year quitting TwenTY & entering TY 1.... :)

#Pona birthday varai vetti rani velai veti ilama..(Ofcourse course inum mudila- padichutu irundhen(ken) ) - this birthday kaila velayoda kondadinom illa :D

#College days - - last year - oru B.Tech STUDENT'a kadasi birthday.

#And elaarum- adhaavadhu kondadina elaarum (Puriravangalauku puriyum) kattayam serndhu irupomgra oru birthday...Next year yar engayo.... epdiyo......

#Elaathayum vida - this year birthday was very special with a lovely gift from my sis.... :D She got me a sooooooooooooper microphone :D . The best gift EVER!!

#Anna's black forest cake & Amma appa's jewel- gifts were also very special :) and many other nice things from friends & relatives ...

OK...ippo matter'ku varen.
Sometime back our friend Gee had sent me the lyrics that he had written for the song – Warriors Of heaven & Earth – ARR’S Chinese Album. Anupi padalamanu ketaanga… Idhelaam unaku romba over maruthu ’nu neenga solradhu nala ketkudhu..But amaidhi…amaidhi... amadihi....

Namakku project - test -review adhu idhunu konja naal idha marandhey poiten..aprama oru naal indha anjala parthapo.."aha- promise paninomey! "apdinu oru chinna kutra unarvu...enna having his lyric - without having sung was little bit uncomfortable for me. Nama pona week'ku munadi -konja naala CRAZY'A anga inga'nu suthi kandadha kudichu throat'a konjam keduthu vechrundha time adhu.....Sari- edra aruvala - nadakradhu nadakatum'nu naanum mic'a eduthu padinen :P ...

Oru 3 trial panen....Adhuku mela..namma mic out...dnt worry not the microphone- en voice.

Sari idhai ippo anupidalaam'nu anupinen.....Gee patta kettutu romba perundhanmaya- nala iruku apdi ipdinu solitanga ;) Infact this was done simply to get his lyrics in musical form...so romba casual'a - (quality nalla ilanu solla varen) jolly'a padinadhu....Gee paatu podalaam..podra alavu nalla iruku'nu solitaanga..Naan kooda sonen..."Namma page'la kaladika neraya peru waiting.....So konjam yosanaya dhan irukunu :P" Kindly bare with the quality- this was just a casual try! -Chumma apdiye jolly’a try panadhu !

Sari sari- aniyayama mokkai potuten...hehe...adikka elaarum kalla kooda eduthuteenga...i cud se that... Elai-- yaaru adhu avlo periya paarangalloda nikradhu?? Shivaji kiterndhu sutupteenga pola....Illa illa...keezha vayunga- edharundhalum pesi theerthukalaam. ...Ukarunganne....Colour kudikreengala... tappu tippunu tension areenga... :P

Sari- elarum en kitta enna comedy venaalum panunga..we have a guest this time..so all behave :P

En mela ingaye kaladikalaam...anaa yaravadhu quality pathi soneenga....apram kettakovam varum- adhaan solitom'la quality nala irukadhu- idhu jolly'ku panadhunu- enna panatum karoake kedakala :) So plz....adjust !!! Adhelaam panuveenga- karkalai dhaan inum keezhey vaikavillai... :P
Apdiye pocket'la potuktu waiting...
Here is Gee's post on the same in his page -> (Gee's page) :)

NILAVIN MUGAMOODI

Lyricist :Geeyavudeen - Z dhanunga! :)

To see the lyrics - you could visit -Z's post on that

Original Track: Warriors of heaven & Earth.

To hear the song - BB - இங்கே சொடுக்கவும்.

Dial up users - இங்கே சொடுக்கவும்.

Sari- ippodhaiku naan jute.... Thoookams comings :P
Andha kadasila irukradhu yaarupa - Andha paraangala vechiyapa...Thambi/Thangachee/Yekkav ... ..Unaku apple juice undu...sariya?? :) Pechungrapo- pechoda irukanum- sinna pulla thnama illa iruku neepanradhu :P

Note for Gee : Thanks for a lovely post Gee :) That was relly nice of you!

The guilty me!!!

I Returned home – with the guilt!

The guilty idiot ~ that I am!

It was a very beautiful day. 3 of us (Me,co1,co2) planned to have a day out together & decided to go on our own. Traveling on our own is so much fun & adventurous.Every time there is something new I see/observe, sometimes- strange, nice, funny,adorable,sad,beautiful…name it.

But today what I saw was pathetic & more annoying. This took place in one of the public toilets – in Chennai. Oh come on, this is not yet another complain on sanitation…but a humanitarian crisis! And no joke!

While in the morning…say at around 9 or so…we reached this place & 2 of us wanted to use the rest room. So we went & paid the money to a really VILLI looking fat lady(More like the one who keeps speaking filthy dialogs in tamil movie- kasthuri maan) in the counter & walked in. I observed a small girl – not a kid though… an adolescent –say some where between 12 to15 years of age. She was sitting on the floor & washing some clothes. This very sight was not very comfortable to see… How could someone wash the clothes in public rest room & use it? Alright…not my business & may be this is a better place for this girl to wash. And I noticed she was not wearing a very comfortable wear. It was more like the slips/(Commonly called as)shimmi ....that is generally worn as an inner garment but yeah- kids do roam around wearing that, because it looks more like a sleeveless frock. But is generally not a comfortable wear to come out in public with. I smiled at the girl in embarrassment when she looked up at me. And we left & had our long day spent in the longest way we could have. And yes – it was a wonderful day until we returned to the same spot that morning…yeah the same restroom. In the evening at around 4:45 we reached this place & co1 wanted to wash her face. So we went to the same place again. Now me & co 2 stayed back outside. And the (gundu villi) fat lady with villain looks had few other men talking to her. Co 1 came back in few minutes and said … “Hey ..the girl you told about this morning – remember??She is still in there washing- in same state, now looking even more pathetic. She is not properly dressed yet! I wonder if she even came out for lunch.”

I was shocked to hear this and told my co’s that I shall go, check if she is good and get back. My Co1 got really mad at me & said “We cannot trace this every day & secure her forever. Now do not try something heroic and get us all into trouble. Look at that lady- she looks like she can smash the 3 of us in one go. And don’t u dream I will come for help. We are here alone. Remember that!”

Hahaha…I know about co1- She would be the first to come to scene :D & to rescue in case I get in trouble…..But yes- i knew the fact she is saying.

Me- “But then I think I really want to go. U got to go when u got to go…please ,give me some change. I will be right back”

When I entered the restroom I was expecting not very serious about this hoping there may be a better answer. I entered & yes she was right there – same posture & with a pile of clothes. Now most of them wet(she had finished washing) – and she was not properly dressed yet. This time I couldn’t keep quiet.

I tried to talk cool with this little girl …. This is what happened …

Me: Dey! Morning unna inga parthen ila??

The girl: Amaam’ka siricheengaley!

Me: Amaam… :) Sari! Innum enna panra?? Dressum mathikala… Yaravadhu ula varaporanga.

The girl: (Simply smiled)

Me: Sari… Veliya poniya – saptiya…? Ilati inga dhan irukiya kalailerndhey? Dress panitavadhu velaya paren! :)

The girl: Inga dhan irundhen’ka.Dress irukkuuuuuuu – veliya amma vechurukaanga. Idhelaam thuvachu mudikanum…apram dhan…(someone came in)

We both looked – I was near the wash basin. It was that (gundu villi) Fat lady- who was chatting with few men outside.

She stared at the little girl & spoke to her something in a different language- I couldn’t understand. It wasn’t tamil/telugu/hindhi/Malayalam/kannadam. It was not any of the familiar language. And her tone wasn’t very good. And as she spoke the girls face frowned. And then Villi left. And then I tried to see her …she wasn’t looking up at all. She was again back to scrubbing the clothes. She wasn’t ready for a conversation or she was not allowed to have one…..

Me: Sari..dress paniko mudhala- aprama poi edhavadhu saapdu

The girl: (Looked up at me – with a confused face & din’t utter a word. Simply nodded & tried hard to smile)

Me: (Smiled back & walked out now even more confused ,annoyed & angry)

When I came out, I looked at the place where this fat lady was sitting- so that I could try talking to her. She was still chatting with those men. They dint seem very friendly either. I wished she was alone- so could have made some attempt to talk to her.

And I turned back this side to look at my co’s.

:O What I saw this side was even more a vili looking angry girl! Yeah that’s co1. She found out – even with out me uttering a word. And as I neared they asked “ Why maruthu…we told you. It is like that. Look at your face! It looks pathetic. You need not have … ”Co1 seemed really annoyed however co2 tried to convince me…

Bloody hell!! Don’t we see what this is- CHILD ABUSE!!! As defined - Child abuse is the physical or psychological maltreatment of a child, often synonymous with the term child maltreatment or the term child abuse and neglect. Some definitions also include the abuse of children by other children or by themselves . It is happening right here – in front of us! I felt like I was so damn useless.

We could clearly see what is happening….The child was literally being tortured.

From morning 8+ till evening 4:45pm a small girl sitting inside all alone with no proper dress, No food, No one inside with her, No water, and almost all that she does is scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse….

Won’t a human being go crazy when subjected to something monotonous & cruel like this? And she is hardly 15 may be or even less. What did she do to go through this? And the pile of clothes!! Oh my god! I don’t think even you & I would have washed so much in a day – even if we had washed our own family members clothes!

Now I was in a state of confusion…co1 looked like she is gonna turn me into ashes & my inner voice told that they have a point.

Come on – we are three young girls who have come all alone – with no back up & this place was deserted too. Also the fat lady is not alone – she has company. And the way she sounded inside…MaaaaaaaaaaaaN - am not going to near her alone. Also when she looked at me – it dint seem very much like she would encourage a talk. And am no good at street fight- or should I say fight! My back up dnt seem very comfortable either. And in case we went to talk to her & then she nods an OK. After we leave in case if she is beaten up black & blue?!! Can it get worse…. Can I possibly do something worse than this to that girl?.... atleast now she has her room to be free from pain- assault .

And had I complained to the police man who was around…. What if he simply warns the lady & goes away! Then she beats up the girl for talking to me or even for telling me (Like she did/was let to).

In worst case, she will drag the girl to a different place &make her toil there.

I knew something was going wrong…I knew something is not right…I knew someone was denied the right…A child is denied her right to live her childhood.

And this is humiliation to the girl child!

But that day – I had to walk off…. Come like nothing was wrong. I wish I wasn’t alone there that day! Had appa or My cousin or some grown up been there something could have been done.

I was so incapable! I felt so low- for the selfish creature that I am.

So useless – so self centered – inhumane idiot that I am!

I was elder than that girl….grown up- and I knew what was happening- she knew that I know now….but still I walked away so powerless…so incapable! I lost sleep that night!

I am guilty!!

I feel awful about my behavior – I feel ashamed for what I was not able to do!

And most of all – I am angry with myself ~ the situation ~ the fat lady!

It is better to admit your mistakes than hiding – isn’t it ?? So here I go- I AM CULPABLE!

And I will not go silent – not anymore…. I shall try to get to the same place again & find the fat lady-this time with some proper backup. And am telling the fat lady that she is wrong! Tell her that this could be taken very seriously if I instigate complain. I am telling her that the child needs to live her life!

PS: I wanted to make the 75th post, a memorable one... i will not forget this in my life. But however wanted to mark the 75th post with a sweet post- and a lovely song - lyrics by our Friend Z/Gee
But this came up. Next post would be that and about the birthday funda-DEAL! :)

TAG'O'TAG!! :)

Hello my dear - very dear friends :)

After a long time I have taken up a tag…This one is from Our new friend..” Brute”

"Hey brute ! Thanx for the tags..I always love tags!! "

Along with this….Here is another song!! : ) If you are patient ..Hear this!

Image - No ..no i dnt!! :) its just a feast- virtual feast!! Enjoy... Elaarum !!

Esply, KK...Cheer up!! Idhenna jujubee- as promised~~ idho special dosai :D

Saapdama poidadheenga!! ;)

LONELY!

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HER GOES THE TAG!!
Those in *=> too many to list!!

Favorite Color: Blue, Green, Hm…B&W :D ofcourse

Favorite Food:Any kind- all kind.. :P But ofcourse LOVE amma’s&Chithi’s recipes

Favorite Month: March :D 123..

*Favorite Songs: (Too many to list- so I go by recent crush ;) …. Arey- with the SONG!!)
Hindi: Recently…”Ey harathi..” (GURU)
Tamil: Vaigasi nilave ..(Unnale unnale)
Telugu: Hmm…. The DOL DOL song (Porikki..:P sorry pokkiri)

English: Ah… TRUST ME! Too many- but now this track that I have uploaded :)

*Favorite Movie: Kandukondaen Kandukondaen, KHNH, Spider man & I am SAM &Kid

*Favorite Sport: Once it was any game with my flat mates..then it was throw ball during high school….shuttle….. Table tennis…..Hm..many many!!!! Recently BINGO & Thirudan police (Final year- yaarum class eduka matengraanga...ponnunga elaam pongal podmnu koopidraanga..but adhu vida idhu better – so fight panni elaarayum velayada vechruven ) :D Its not a sport- DUH!! :P I know.i know..but in class room when there is actual activity while playing the game :P why not call it a sport :P

Favorite Season: Any season – provided you are not denied food & sleep :P
Favorite Day Of the week: Haha…Good josheen!!! SUNDAY :D U know y……

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor: Vanilla
Favorite Time of Day: hm…Time when people around you are in good mood => U too would obviously be! ( Am not very choosy about this)After all, every today- its just one day!

8 CURRENTS
Current Mood: Cheerful :D

Current Taste: hm..I just had water…what does it taste like?!
Current Clothes: Lungi….Munda baniyan ..with a towel in my head(inside which ajith & surya kudutha peedi kattu…apram vijay’oda vathi petti…apram enga kooda nethu night thanni adicha 3 kosu innum mappula thoonginu iruku…) :P
Current Desktop: Hm… Does it matter?? :D

Current Time: Asuku busuku..naan eppo tag ezhudhuna enna? :P

Current Surroundings: Music!! :) “Kangal paarthaen..kavi anaen…”Kandu pidiunga parpom enna patunu!
Current Thoughts: About studies :P apdinu sonna nambuveengalo?!!hehe About my really sincere answer to the following questions :P

6 FIRSTS
First Best Friend: Amma : )

First Screen Name: ~~~Am not a celebrity! ~~~~ DUH~~
First Pet: :( pappooooooo- right here…in my page- See left column!!Luv u pappooo
First Piercing: Naan mathavangaluku kaadhu kuthinadha solradha..illa enaku china vayasula konala kuthina thaatha pathi solradha??

First Album: ~~~Am not a celebrity! ~~~~ DUH~~
First Movie: ~~~Am not a celebrity! ~~~~ DUH~~

6 LASTS
Last Cigarette: Hee hee…the one I smoked or the one I saw?

Last Drink alcoholic: same….?

Non-alcoholic: WATER – I just toldya!!

Last Car Ride: To the college….
Last Movie Seen: :) I really dnt remember…ah..yeah “Maid in Manhattan”
Last Phone Call: Edhukkuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu?? :P
Last Book Read: Chicken soup for women’s soul !

Have You Ever Broken the Law: hehe….apram?!! :P

Have You Ever Been Arrested: Hm…adhelaam enga nadakudhu :P !!
Have You Ever Been on TV: Hm…Yes -a few number of times!

Have You Ever Lied: VACHEENGA PARUNGA NETHI ADI!!! Who sets these questions….. meet me soon! :P
Have You Ever Kissed Someone You Didn't Know: Hm…. Yes! But not like GRAB SOME ONE IN THE STREET & KISS (Am not desperate!!) :P …but yeah strangers ..hey hey hey ….ONLY KIDS!!!! :>

5 THINGS
Thing You're Wearing: Adhukula poi dress mathitu vara naan enna heroine’a…LUNGI dhaan :P soneney!!
Thing You've Done Today: Edhukkuney!!! I need to have a talk with qn setter!! :P

Thing You Can Hear Right Now: told ya…. GURU song

Thing You Can't Live Without: ME! :D ( This is one place where using me is never a mistake!! ;) is it?? )
Thing You Do When You're Bored: I try to bore the bore!! :D

4 PLACES YOU'VE BEEN TODAY

Place1 , Place 2, place 3 – please do not tell this to any!!:P
Edhukku oi?? Edhukku?? :P Repeat- Qn setter……

3 PEOPLE YOU CAN TELL ANYTHING TO
Paarda….. Neenga elaam ularina naangalum ularunuma enna?? Hehe…. I say what ever I have to , to whom ever it should be told. SIMPLE! Idhukunu oru question’a???

2 CHOICES
1. black or white: Depends for what/why – they are chosen!

2. Hot or Cold: Same…. :)

1 THING YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE
LIVE MY LIFE! :) Live it the way I want it…& leave this place peacefully!

Here is my favourite part :) TAGGING YOUR FRIENDS….

If you are interested to write this… ( Ragasiyama oru signal kudunga :) – you are in ) signal it to me….

Because it is really annoying when you tag some one & they do not turn up…it really buGGs :)

But here are two buddies whom I am going to tag – why why why- why them?? :P

Because..this tag would be the very first tag they ever take up in their blog venture.

So I take the pleasure in tagging them, for they would also enjoy writing this!

Jagan & GOPPS …You are tagged!! : ) hehaaaaaaa

JUMP IN !!

Hm... Naangalum tag ezhudhuvomla!...

Btw, Are u interested in writing? :) sollungo..am here to tag u!

PS: Paatula remba pudhusa edho try panings ..so HEHEHE!!

CALL THAT LOVE!

Call that LOVE!

And am here to sing you a happy song... :D

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!

Dial up users- click here to hear the song

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The valentine’s day is here….

We need to have a separate discussion for if such a day is necessary at all ( for our Indian culture.)

But no…lets not go there :) atleast for now.

I do wish to make a point here…these days the valentines day has developed more aversion all because of some sick- oops some love sick people’s atrocious behaviour in public.. Am sure my friends who are around here don’t join that club. :) No offence – if any new visitors who may belong to that club!

On this day am planning to send out a special gift- yes the one in pic – a bracelet for my school buddy with whom am still in touch. SMS, Snail mail, e-mail…..We first met during 1996 & ever since we are great friends & value each other! TOUCH WOOD! :) Now love is not just some silly feeling between a chick & a dude! :P

LOVE- a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another passion.

- a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

- a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

Speaking of love something that crossed my mind

# Couple walking down the street on a silent night.

HUSBAND: “Last year- I was able to take you for a ride in our car that we just sold to pay our debt. But I was busy doing business. This year they dumped me & when I want to take you for a ride- I have no car! Am sorry that am making you go through all this.

WIFE:( Gripping his hand! ) I really missed those long walks honey!Am happy you are here with me now -to walk! I would hate driving alone. :)

CALL THAT LOVE!

# Brother getting back home really late on a promised day ….

BROTHER : OI…. Do u think I got home late in the night to see ur long faces? !! :P I came back coz’ I promised this day! And its not yet 12…. So am here as promised on this day! Come on – our plan for the day…Lets watch the movie… :)

SISTERZ: :> Hm… :)

(Although they were mad at him….. They did sit and watch the movie. And half way through , seeing their bro sleep like a kid – how can one not smile?! They decided to pause it & watch the next day! All three went to bed that night with that special feeling of being loved!)

CALL THAT LOVE!

#Granee & Mom…

Girl:( Washing the bowl- tells her mom) You know ma, paati loved that APPLE SHAKE!

MOM: What shake?? She hates apple shake….Did she have it??

Mom to Granee: Did u have the apple shake? You never liked it & never had!

Granee: Well, when she has made it with so much love – how can u say no?!

Girl: < ##### U know…..##### > Paaaaaaatiiiiiiiii :(

CALL THAT LOVE!

#After a long day, when the family has gathered for dinner! You had a terrible day & is in no mood even to talk about it. Not to any one….When you think that no one noticed it and after dinner your dad calls you & asks…

DAD :“What went wrong, dear? What happened ….. :) ”

These simple words would have brought down all those worries crashing down to the floor!

KID: <### An amused look with thought running in the head .."How did appa know??" and returns a gentle smile.... then ofcourse..you know talk-it- over ## ### >

CALL THAT LOVE!

#Friends ….after receiving a disastrous answer sheet corrected by a terrible teacher

Friend1: I can’t believe she gave me 30/50…Dumb lady!!

Friend2: Don’t worry!

Friend1: How could she?? Look at this answer…. What more should I write?!

Friend2: Chill dee!! Don’t bother!!

Friend1: (Now eyes are little watery) But this will bring down my internal! CRAP!

Friend2: Oh…come on!! Why pay any shit to her?

Friend1: (Little annoyed..) Yeah…. Like you would have taken my mark with a happy face!

Freind2: YEAH!! Ofcourse!! :D I just flunked! :)

Friend1: (DAMN! ) :O …..Am sorry dee….. Am really sorry….

Friend2: Now we both know she is such a stupid paper corrector…& don not worry- she would not correct the final exam papers! Lets celebrate this!! :P And you mind wiping off that little drop near your eyes…Because it really is insulting that I don’t have any !! :P Cheer up !! Don’t get upset for such sick issues!

Friend1: < #### U know t expression… ####>

CALL THAT LOVE!

# Pals who have not spoken for months because of some silly misunderstanding.

When some one has irritated, annoyed & broken trust, but then realizes the mistake and apologizes…

“No… it is alright. We do commit mistakes! Am glad you have realized it…I don’t mind at all. Lets leave that behind and move on…. Because after all that’s what friends are! Be there for each other no matter what! Am glad you are back “

CALL THAT LOVE!
# 2 people ....

After a very long & terrible argument, one of them saying...

"Let us stop this dear!! Do u think this is of any value at all?..... Let’s forget it....and move on.....And am sorry! May be i should not have... "

CALL THAT LOVE!

How many people would still be in good terms had they realized the value of this statement...how many could have still been friends.....how many would have still been there for each other..... How many forgot this?!

Hm…. So, Love is a great feeling to share with another human being- or even your pet. SO this valentine’s day- tell your loved one….that they mean a lot to you. Make them feel- you value them- so will they & appreciate them for the same.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!

PS: There is a general complain about the songs I choose. Are they all really that very sad?! No…No..am a happy person!! Elaarum ketungapaaaaaaaaaaa………..AM A VERY HAPPY PERSON!! :) Well…. Here I have tried a song that is new for me though. I have sang in a new style - with a little pep & life added to it…I GUESS!!HEHEHE! Kallai vittu erinjudadheenga…Pudhu try avlo dhaan!

Let your loved one's know...... You care!

A new try in singing- hear the track!

KHNH Heart beat-My rendition --> Click this link to hear my track!!

Now that all my friends have approved the template- i start off with the posting! :)

Hope you like this track. I have made use of the music track that is played as the title track in the movie- Kal ho naa ho! Enna try panirukenu kettu parunga. Hindhi theriyadha- pidikadha nanbrahal elaam thala therika odiradheenga….Ketal puriyum why’nu

Now that all my friends have approved this template- which if they dint’…they know what would have happened!! :P

Ok ….Here is something that could surprise you. I haven’t been in a train- the local train before. I remember once – I have tried it. But this was the first time we actually traveled in a local train –Electric train.

An incident in the electric train!!

We got the tickets & got into the train.Another friend of ours gave us all the instructions & directed us to the compartment. Myself &My Sister we got into the train. First we had seat only for one. So one of us took the seat & then soon we got another. Now both of us are seated opposite facing each other. Then there was a very old lady who came in & the seat adjacent to me was free. Ok ow to make the part exactly the same way how we narrated to amma on getting back home I will put it the exact same way.

Mom:” How was ur train travel?? First time…. How did you both find it to be?”

Both of us: It was great ma!! :)

Sis: Hey- lets tell her what happened…. That boy!!

Me: :P Vendaam dee

Sis: Oh..come on. Whats there – sollu sollu….

Me: Naan sonne illa ma…we got seat late. Apram konja neram kazhichu – 3 of us adjusted & sat. Me,another boy & an old lady. I had my bag on my lap & rested both my hands on it. I was looking out through the window. I suddenly felt a very gentle touch. Yaaro en kai mela avanga kaiya vecha mari irundhadhu…takkunu thirumbi parthen. No one. Then again…yaro en kaya thotta mari irundhadhu..this time edukala..i could still feel. Thriumbi paatha…it was that boy. Naan sari- thookam polanu- took off my hands.

Mom : Idhaan sonen….vendaamnu. Ini eppavum u r not going in train. That’s it. This is your last time..

Both of us : ??? En amma ivlo tension areenga??

Mom: Pinna enavaam!!! U r not going…

Sis: Hey loosu !! We dnt tell amma that it was ladies compartment…She has mistaken that boy for some handsome young boy!!

Both of us: LOL!!! Vizhundhu vizhundhu sirichom…..

Then I continued…

Me:Ammmaa….Amma…. Adhu oru kutti payyan ma. Indha paatiyoda perandi. He was too little & very cute. I wonder why- chumma chumma kaiya pudichuktaan…I dnt mind. I loved that kiddo- :)

Mom: Adhaney parthen…neenga rendum perum-jansi rani achey- summa vitruka mateengaley’nu!! Kutti payana?!! LOL!! And the whole night- 3 of us often started laughing thinking abt this mis communication.

SISTER’S FUN!

Me & my sis had the special communication to recollect & laugh at. While all this was happening…I told u my sis was sitting opposite to me. She messaged to me from the other mobile… things like these…that couldn’t stop me from laughing.

#-SIS

~ - Me

# Oi… Enna nadakudhu inga…Avan enadi kai potutu irukaan??

~ WHAT!!! :O Ey…he is a KID…Give it a break!!!Doggie :P

# Ey..enna idhu !!! Kai pudichuktaan….?? Konjam kooda mariyadhaye illa….Idhu sariya padala

~ I am trying to have a talk with him…. Parthutu thalaya thriupikraan.Orusmile mattum dhan kudukraan.!!

He seems to be really in love with u…don’t let go off…. Pavam dee!! :P

~ NOW I TOTALLY GOT ANNOYED. Payyana paarthu SOODA oru morai… “Un peru enna??”

PODIYAN-The kid! : (Thiruttu muzhi - Paatiya parka)

Paati : Akka edam kuduthangala…peru sollu da…

Podiyan: Vignesh ka'...elaarum vicky'nu koopduvanga.

ME: (That was adorable a kid!! I couldn't resist a kiss. Gave him a kiss.) Ok..vicky... Akka will get down now. You & paati can then sit comfortably!!OK?

When ever i see a local train- this incident is flashing & will always falsh in my brain!!
Don't forget to hear the Track!! & leav eur feed back :)

PAPPOO - Do treat him if you have found him in my page!! :P Keep looking...if not!!

Its new , baby!! ;)

Pudhussu kanna pudhusu!! ;)

Hehe!! Am talking about the template here!! Do let me know how it looks. If u feel it is 'below okay', and want to make some really bad comment :P …Plz use this smiley- [:|] That will do… hehe!!Am kidding- tell me !

And if you felt is was ok & above average- feel FREE to tell me! :)

Idhu enna orey girlish’a oru template- adhu idhunu yaravadhu sollunga… :P

Pala maadhangaluku munadiye idhu thonuchu,ADHAANGA TEMPLATE CHANGE…ippo vendaam- ippo vendaam’nu vittuten. Enna??!!....

I had a thought about changing my template, but I was only hesitating for my little heart can’t take any ( PS: ) wrecks!

Ok, finally one fine day I decided to sit& work on the design, coding & the image.There were plenty of hands offering to help. But I wanted to do this all by myself! I took one evening & almost got this new template- ALL DONE! But then it was only IE_friendly. It had a pathetic look & was not aligned at all in firefox & also it looked like a newspaper- too long!!! I tried editing…but Ooof!! I really dnt know a way out. There were so many good hearts offering to help, and THANKS TO ALL THOSE LOVELY PEOPLE!!! : ) It was overwhelming, indeed!And finally i said ok when my sis offered to help ( Very KIND of her!! :D coz she actually fixed it). She struggled with firefox & the coding & now its looks fine.Infact it looks great!! ;) Don't tell me - u have a different browser & the template still needs fixing! Am sure it works fine in ur PC- does it? :)

Irukalamaa ejamaan? ilaati theerpa- sorry template'a mathidanumaa?

PS: Indha template sudra velai elaam inga venaam :P soliputen….. Naan gaandi tension anaen- azhudhuduven. Asking is never a bad.But I hate stealing! Suda dhaan koodadhu!

One of my all time favourite.
Nayagan-Thenpaandi cheemayile
- Marutham. Kindly , Click the link to hear the song

For some reason i love this song so much....

I remember , once in the class room someone had this song in their mobile & played it. It was a lunch break & we were all rushing up finishing a home work(in Numerical Methods) that eventually all of us forgot to do the previous evening. Hearing this song.... Naan enga irundhenu marandhu poi...went to some other world. And when i got back to the real world on hearing the bell ringing, it was too late. Sir entry - for the first time, am sitting in his class without completing the H.W. I had the option of copying the answer - but i never wanted to do that.
I was hoping he wouldn't come & hit my note, but what happened?
Lucky me.... First row'la vera yaaru noteyaavadhu eduthrukka koodadha? Matnenda.....
He took my note & went through what topic he had covered the previous day. Then came to THIS PAGE- where the problem was hanging in the air....and looked through his glasses at me.Enaku semma bayam. My imagination took its worst form.And in my head" Paataa da kekra paatu-- ippo nee paatu vanguva paaru!!" I was shaken with fear, and I remained silent looking puzzled.
He returned my note book & smiled,said"So students today i will be dealing with..."
Aha...appao naan deal'a?! Ayya jolly!!
Enakku orey gushi!! Namala onnum solama poitereynu!
He used to send the students out of the class if they have not completed the work. But as i said already ,it was THE FIRST TIME- I sat in his class without completing the work . And i was one in that GUMBAL that shouts out the answer first. Hm... Enngayo aramichu engayo vandhuten.

This IS an unforgettable song for me and will always be….


PS:To the devil,dreamzz,arunkumar,KK,Syam,Ranjhith,Nirek,Bharani- Thanku for the comments. I will write on that very same topic later.I will get back with the VERY SAME TOPIC! :

On a well-wishers advice- the original post had been removed. But I shall get back with the same topic later, when things are back to normal.

Wishing you all a very very happy new year!!

This new year is going to be great. I have a very very strong feeling about it. For this new year - i gave a break for amma's monotonous COOKING work. So namma samayl for a day! :)

Thats in the pic...Do not worry- every1 is safe & sound . And here are few songs that i sang in the recent days,

Wishing that we have a peaceful 2006+....

Click these links to hear the song.

Song for PEACE.. -- Marutham

Maargazhi thingal...-- Marutham

Ippodhaiku JUTE.....