10.3.07

The guilty me!!!


I Returned home – with the guilt!

The guilty idiot ~ that I am!

It was a very beautiful day. 3 of us (Me,co1,co2) planned to have a day out together & decided to go on our own. Traveling on our own is so much fun & adventurous.Every time there is something new I see/observe, sometimes- strange, nice, funny,adorable,sad,beautiful…name it.

But today what I saw was pathetic & more annoying. This took place in one of the public toilets – in Chennai. Oh come on, this is not yet another complain on sanitation…but a humanitarian crisis! And no joke!

While in the morning…say at around 9 or so…we reached this place & 2 of us wanted to use the rest room. So we went & paid the money to a really VILLI looking fat lady(More like the one who keeps speaking filthy dialogs in tamil movie- kasthuri maan) in the counter & walked in. I observed a small girl – not a kid though… an adolescent –say some where between 12 to15 years of age. She was sitting on the floor & washing some clothes. This very sight was not very comfortable to see… How could someone wash the clothes in public rest room & use it? Alright…not my business & may be this is a better place for this girl to wash. And I noticed she was not wearing a very comfortable wear. It was more like the slips/(Commonly called as)shimmi ....that is generally worn as an inner garment but yeah- kids do roam around wearing that, because it looks more like a sleeveless frock. But is generally not a comfortable wear to come out in public with. I smiled at the girl in embarrassment when she looked up at me. And we left & had our long day spent in the longest way we could have. And yes – it was a wonderful day until we returned to the same spot that morning…yeah the same restroom. In the evening at around 4:45 we reached this place & co1 wanted to wash her face. So we went to the same place again. Now me & co 2 stayed back outside. And the (gundu villi) fat lady with villain looks had few other men talking to her. Co 1 came back in few minutes and said … “Hey ..the girl you told about this morning – remember??She is still in there washing- in same state, now looking even more pathetic. She is not properly dressed yet! I wonder if she even came out for lunch.”

I was shocked to hear this and told my co’s that I shall go, check if she is good and get back. My Co1 got really mad at me & said “We cannot trace this every day & secure her forever. Now do not try something heroic and get us all into trouble. Look at that lady- she looks like she can smash the 3 of us in one go. And don’t u dream I will come for help. We are here alone. Remember that!”

Hahaha…I know about co1- She would be the first to come to scene :D & to rescue in case I get in trouble…..But yes- i knew the fact she is saying.

Me- “But then I think I really want to go. U got to go when u got to go…please ,give me some change. I will be right back”

When I entered the restroom I was expecting not very serious about this hoping there may be a better answer. I entered & yes she was right there – same posture & with a pile of clothes. Now most of them wet(she had finished washing) – and she was not properly dressed yet. This time I couldn’t keep quiet.

I tried to talk cool with this little girl …. This is what happened …

Me: Dey! Morning unna inga parthen ila??

The girl: Amaam’ka siricheengaley!

Me: Amaam… :) Sari! Innum enna panra?? Dressum mathikala… Yaravadhu ula varaporanga.

The girl: (Simply smiled)

Me: Sari… Veliya poniya – saptiya…? Ilati inga dhan irukiya kalailerndhey? Dress panitavadhu velaya paren! :)

The girl: Inga dhan irundhen’ka.Dress irukkuuuuuuu – veliya amma vechurukaanga. Idhelaam thuvachu mudikanum…apram dhan…(someone came in)

We both looked – I was near the wash basin. It was that (gundu villi) Fat lady- who was chatting with few men outside.

She stared at the little girl & spoke to her something in a different language- I couldn’t understand. It wasn’t tamil/telugu/hindhi/Malayalam/kannadam. It was not any of the familiar language. And her tone wasn’t very good. And as she spoke the girls face frowned. And then Villi left. And then I tried to see her …she wasn’t looking up at all. She was again back to scrubbing the clothes. She wasn’t ready for a conversation or she was not allowed to have one…..

Me: Sari..dress paniko mudhala- aprama poi edhavadhu saapdu

The girl: (Looked up at me – with a confused face & din’t utter a word. Simply nodded & tried hard to smile)

Me: (Smiled back & walked out now even more confused ,annoyed & angry)

When I came out, I looked at the place where this fat lady was sitting- so that I could try talking to her. She was still chatting with those men. They dint seem very friendly either. I wished she was alone- so could have made some attempt to talk to her.

And I turned back this side to look at my co’s.

:O What I saw this side was even more a vili looking angry girl! Yeah that’s co1. She found out – even with out me uttering a word. And as I neared they asked “ Why maruthu…we told you. It is like that. Look at your face! It looks pathetic. You need not have … ”Co1 seemed really annoyed however co2 tried to convince me…

Bloody hell!! Don’t we see what this is- CHILD ABUSE!!! As defined - Child abuse is the physical or psychological maltreatment of a child, often synonymous with the term child maltreatment or the term child abuse and neglect. Some definitions also include the abuse of children by other children or by themselves . It is happening right here – in front of us! I felt like I was so damn useless.

We could clearly see what is happening….The child was literally being tortured.

From morning 8+ till evening 4:45pm a small girl sitting inside all alone with no proper dress, No food, No one inside with her, No water, and almost all that she does is scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse…. scrub-wash- rinse….

Won’t a human being go crazy when subjected to something monotonous & cruel like this? And she is hardly 15 may be or even less. What did she do to go through this? And the pile of clothes!! Oh my god! I don’t think even you & I would have washed so much in a day – even if we had washed our own family members clothes!

Now I was in a state of confusion…co1 looked like she is gonna turn me into ashes & my inner voice told that they have a point.

Come on – we are three young girls who have come all alone – with no back up & this place was deserted too. Also the fat lady is not alone – she has company. And the way she sounded inside…MaaaaaaaaaaaaN - am not going to near her alone. Also when she looked at me – it dint seem very much like she would encourage a talk. And am no good at street fight- or should I say fight! My back up dnt seem very comfortable either. And in case we went to talk to her & then she nods an OK. After we leave in case if she is beaten up black & blue?!! Can it get worse…. Can I possibly do something worse than this to that girl?.... atleast now she has her room to be free from pain- assault .

And had I complained to the police man who was around…. What if he simply warns the lady & goes away! Then she beats up the girl for talking to me or even for telling me (Like she did/was let to).

In worst case, she will drag the girl to a different place &make her toil there.

I knew something was going wrong…I knew something is not right…I knew someone was denied the right…A child is denied her right to live her childhood.

And this is humiliation to the girl child!

But that day – I had to walk off…. Come like nothing was wrong. I wish I wasn’t alone there that day! Had appa or My cousin or some grown up been there something could have been done.

I was so incapable! I felt so low- for the selfish creature that I am.

So useless – so self centered – inhumane idiot that I am!

I was elder than that girl….grown up- and I knew what was happening- she knew that I know now….but still I walked away so powerless…so incapable! I lost sleep that night!

I am guilty!!

I feel awful about my behavior – I feel ashamed for what I was not able to do!

And most of all – I am angry with myself ~ the situation ~ the fat lady!

It is better to admit your mistakes than hiding – isn’t it ?? So here I go- I AM CULPABLE!

And I will not go silent – not anymore…. I shall try to get to the same place again & find the fat lady-this time with some proper backup. And am telling the fat lady that she is wrong! Tell her that this could be taken very seriously if I instigate complain. I am telling her that the child needs to live her life!

PS: I wanted to make the 75th post, a memorable one... i will not forget this in my life. But however wanted to mark the 75th post with a sweet post- and a lovely song - lyrics by our Friend Z/Gee
But this came up. Next post would be that and about the birthday funda-DEAL! :)

67 comments:

The Devil said...

He He, ippo dheikku presence, then will come back n post my comments

Venkatesh said...

it feels very heavy after reading this. instead of going to the police, you should go to these social organizations that fight against children / women abuse.. however, i am quite shocked to know that this is all happening in a public restroom..

Ram said...

pathetic.! :(

Harish said...

Situations as such make us feel so low and vulnerable. I remember a similar incident narrated by one of our friend who spotted an old women in the street lying for 3 days without attention. He was running an old age home and got that lady in there for treatment.
Just remember that you have a heart to do it and care about it. All you need to do is find like minded people
and figure out a way to do it.

Dreamzz said...

ahaa! naan 5th a?

Dreamzz said...

marutham,
ur concern is really appreciated on a humanitarian basis. But, I still think u made the right decision then...

the story is sad.. and yes, some one with u could have made a difference ... IF they wanted to adopt or put the girl in a foster home some where else. OTher than that, whatever u might /some one else might do would be a temporary repreive and more trouble later for the little girl.

Well, I cant say any thing else.

Dreamzz said...

வாடிய பயிரை கண்டபோதெல்லாம்
வள்ளலார் வாடி இருக்கலாம்..
ஆனால் இன்னும் அவை அப்ப்டியே தான் இருக்கின்றன..

so, ithella irundhu therivandhu enna enraal, yes, u can feel sad, and satisfy ur inner humaitarian feelings, but... it doesnt mean anything to the receiver. And I am sure, the last thing that girl wanted was pity from us.

TO me, I either help her, or i dont.

well, i guess i cant expect everyone to be as idiotic as me..
but then... just thought to say..

I actually begin this to make u feel better.. now i wonder?

My days(Gops) said...

attendance first

A.VENGATA said...

indha madri situation la nama oru rajnikaantha illa vijaya irundha antha villya oda vittu odhachirukkalam.
Ava kooda pesna group ayum thookkki thonga vitrukkalam. really we need a backup to fight against these villy/villians.
At the same time, we can take actions thru some organisations(meant 4 this problems).
i realy appreciate ur Humanitation. yethana per ithu madri kavala paduvaanga.
Ungalukku kutra unarvu thevai illai.
Itha Ithana perukku theriya paduthneengale athuve antha ponnukku neenga indirecta sencha udhavi.
Anyway neenga oru nalla human being.

Arun said...

damn.. i thought some good story it is.. i lost all my mood to wish a happy birthday to my little friend.. really feel heavy.. i am not going to come out of this next 2days. wht an impact, and girl.. u write good..

Ghost Particle said...

u must do something, only you have the power to change, report to the welfare organization and the womens organization. And then the police. U have a good heart marutham, you will find that truth hurts, but it will hurt less when we change it for the better.

happy 7th post.

The Devil said...

At that point of time, the only thing that vulnerable humans who couldnt have done more was to feel empathy for that poor kid and i think you have done that and have made sure that when you go to the same place with the proper persons, you see to it that the gal is taken care and under complete control of a good human being. You are absolved in my court :) but i dont think it was a culpable offence either

As far as i see the villi is the real self-centred person who depends on this kid for her food...I pity her and hope that this gal is in gud safe hands in the future

Arunkumar said...

unfortunately these things happen with the knowledge of police :( which leaves normal human beings like us vulnerable and helpless :(

Arunkumar said...

Its very difficult to do something Good in our country. Thats the fact !!!

Srijith Unni said...

Marutham, this is a sensitive issue and it has to be dealt with, with a lot of care and thought.! It`s not something you should do in the spur of the moment.!

There are mainly things to be concerned about like whether the girl is being looked after by the fat 'villi'. She could be an orphan..

You can contact organizations which look into such problems and report child abuse, but then you shall be then taking a lot of responsibility there and your mind shall not be put at rest until you know that the child is safe and happy.

Find out something about the girl child, the villi and their circumstances, before you commence.. You must have your facts right!

Take Care and God Bless!

P.S: Congratulations, on your 75th post, Keep Blogging!!

With Best Regards,
Srijith

Jeevan said...

Many such incidents happening everywhere, but we hesitate to help them, if some other problem would come for us or them. There is nothing like guilty. We like to stop what is happening, but we don't know a proper way to handle it and with some carelessness we left them and such abuse or cruel things increases.

I feel very distress about her condition. Hope u are some one will help that little girl.

Marutham when is ur birthday?... Anyway Wish you a Happy BIRTHDAY:) and congrats for your 75th post!!

iamvisheshur said...

sometimes we can't do things....
there a lot of girls and boys in india of my age and younger than me who face such problems...it is not a question of financial help,the money you give to the child would be given to the parents.....so the child condition doesn't improve.While we a few citizens try to make a change-the government and others wouldn't let us do so....a few years ago when i went to a hairdressers near my house-there was a small guy working there-when i enquired what he was doing here and how had he landed up there..he answered he was tortured by his teachers in school because he didn't get good marks-so he simple left studies(even though his parents wanted him to study)...
the scope for stopping child abuse and torture is not high-we miss a link.....


as for the helping the girl-you could have complained in one of the
women police stations..(t the place you are refering to is T nagar?)if it is i can assure you worst things happen...and trying to help will land you in trouble...

ranjhith said...

> The guilty idiot ~ that I am!

What you have done is absolutely right. Yes, a sort of inability but its bcos you are not capable of doing good. Never Worry. >:O)

The best, you cud hav done is to tell the girl that things will be alright in the near future & give her some money, for herself to buy something to eat, may be after her work is done. Next time you visit, you may do this. >:O)

Then, I guess, Child Labour/Abuse is considered serious by the states thesedays. Make urself anonymous & report this to the numbers given here: http://www.childlabour.tn.gov.in/

Balaji S Rajan said...

Marutham,

What a wonderful girl you are! I am really proud of you for your thoughts.

First I want to congatulate for your 75th post. Then for your good thoughts. I appreciate fully your actions. I do not blame you for your inability.

We have seen lots and heard a lot. Practically it is not possible to go to a great extent without any good support. If I had been in your position, I would have tried to develop a rapport with the fat lady. Probably you need a bit of sales talk. We should first approach her since she is the mother and slowly understand her problem and appreciate her for taking up a strenous job and slowly enquire about the small girl. I strongly believe that anything approached properly with a bit of human touch, may change the other person. I have approached thugs and anti-social elements. Atleast on being approached they have accepted that what they are doing is not correct. We should inject that guilty feeling in them and slowly get rid of their attitudes and guide them. You do need a help of organisation. At the same time, if you are willing try to visit frequently and have a chat with the fat lady and find out her problems. Explain her that she should grow her daughter in a better way than extracting so much of labour from her. Many are making mistakes because of their ignorance and inability. They need guidance. Probably if given guidance they may turn to be better. I have done some social services in the past talking with anti social elements on personal interest. I have spoken with people of both the sexes and have atleast made them realise their mistakes. Some need to be told. Once a positive way is shown, they may like to leave their old way and get into new things. Constant approach and persuasion is the need of the hour.

On the whole, I am glad that I am in touch with wonderful people like you. Please do not run away from troubles. I am very much touched by the little girl. We all are blessed in many ways for this wonderful life. I keep telling my children. Please keep us posted about the developments.

KK said...

Hey Marutham,
A very heavy post indeed. I think you shouldnt feel guilty. I feel what you did that day under your circumstances was the right thing to do... I think you can check another day with proper back up like going with your father or someone and try talking to that lady. If that lady is rude and doesnt listen to what you say, you can probably get in touch with organizations which will fight for these issues.
I am sure police, will not much other than taking some money from that lady and walking off.
Very nice of you to try doing something like this. Congratulations for your 75th post :)

My days(Gops) said...

konjam wait pannunga....

kandippa dumarow me the cuming..

innaikum attendance mattum thaaan..
ok?

apple juice cuming...

ஜி said...

just now got a chance to read this post..

really pathetic.....

Definetly we need to do sumthing abt that...

ஜி said...

This is more memorable than the song Marutham....

The incident is definetly made ur 75th post....

Still feeling sad... :((.. thanks for sharing...

Bharani said...

Hey Marutham....Many More Happy Returns Of the Day......Have a superb year ahead :)

Bharani said...

25th comment to ur birthday :)

Bharani said...

will listen to the song in home and comment.....officela not possible :(

My days(Gops) said...

Many more Happy Returns of the day...

nalla varusama amaiya vaalthukal..

:))

gils said...

hmm..neria thadava hotela table thudakara paiyanlaam paatha ipditaan thonum...unless v have a sure fire plan..its better not to get involved in these things..we mite end up doin more harm than gud for them...suggest to contact some NGO who deals with these..i knw a few who do these sorta work...

gils said...

ungala rombaaaaaaaaa nalaa kaanum..enga poitel

ambi said...

ohh feeling heavy after reading.

this is not only U, every educated, professionals are incapable now (including myself also).silent watchers ...

we slip from our citizen duties by:
1) failing to vote at least.
2) failing to choose a capable leader(of course, no body there now)
3) not taking initiative to serve for public thru civil services. we are going for BE/medicine/computers to earn dollers/pounds rather IAS/IPS.

but we are not bad, we have humanity, we want justice. we are Indian youths.

I also agree with balaji rajan's point. we could make a diff by having a friendly talk with those pple.

ambi said...

btw, congrats for the 75th post.
hope to see U more.

Ram said...

@ambi - yenna solla vara? correct aa sollu pappom :)

Syam said...

this is pathetic....you could have seeked help from police since its illegal to make a child work now a days....

Syam said...

and congratulations for good luck for a new try on that song...athu innum ketkala....veetla poi ketutu solren :-)

Syam said...

Belated B'day Wishes :-)

Marutham said...

@Devil ,
Take ur time....

Marutham said...

@Venkatesh,
Am in search of an NGO that would take this seriously & take action accordingly :)
Oru 2 peru kitta ketruken...
YES! Enakum adhu dhaan shock....
Public'la ipdi panna engerndhu vandhucho dhairiyam!!!!
Kashta kaalam...

Marutham said...

@Harish,
Romba sariya soneenga...
Iam glad ur friend did that!! It is really great of him!

Marutham said...

@Dreams,
Sari dhaan dreams... But on the other side.. I would say that the lady is just ignorant about the greatness of motherhood... May be she is not aware that this is wrong. I wish i could meet her again- now i am gonna face her straight- coz' i think than reghretting like this i cud have made an attempt to talk to her. But also i will go with the right company!

//
well, i guess i cant expect everyone to be as idiotic as me..
but then... just thought to say..//
Neenga idiotic'a??WHY WHY WHY?? No u r not...

//I actually begin this to make u feel better.. now i wonder?//
hm.. :)

Marutham said...

@Gops,
Kashta patu nadandhu vandhrukeenga...Ukarunga first..medhuva comment'laam :)

Marutham said...

@Vengata,
//indha madri situation la nama oru rajnikaantha illa vijaya irundha antha villya oda vittu odhachirukkalam.Ava kooda pesna group ayum thookkki thonga vitrukkalam. really we need a backup to fight against these villy/villians.//
:) I WISH !

//At the same time, we can take actions thru some organisations(meant 4 this problems).//
Idhai kandipa seyaren....i hope am able to do SOMEHTING atleast


:)

Marutham said...

@Arun,

Oops!! Am sorry arun!! I wish u haven't read this..i dnt know it will affect u so much..cheer up....

Adhaan u gave a very sweet wish achey....Dnt feel bad.Thanks alot again for that!

Marutham said...

@GP,
//report to the welfare organization and the womens organization. //
Kandipa am not going to sit quiet... :)
Thanks for the support

Marutham said...

@the devil,
//see to it that the gal is taken care and under complete control of a good human being. You are absolved in my court :)//
Kandipaaga :)
Thanx gopps

Marutham said...

@Arunkumar,
//unfortunately these things happen with the knowledge of police//
Seriously...I have to go with you...
I had a strong feeling - that i better try in someother way first than going to police first..
//Its very difficult to do something Good in our country. Thats the fact !!!//
:O

Marutham said...

@Srijith,
First ,Glad to see u here! :)
//It`s not something you should do in the spur of the moment.!//
So true~ SO TRUE!!

// She could be an orphan..//
Hmmm.....

//You can contact organizations which look into such problems and report child abuse, but then you shall be then taking a lot of responsibility there and your mind shall not be put at rest until you know that the child is safe and happy. //
Yes srijith..i shall do that..but i am planning to go check in the same place again & try to talk to the lady first! I will do it sure... :)

Thanx for the suggestions Srijith :)

Marutham said...

@Jeevan,

Yes jeevan..It is sad indeed.
I shall do what i can... :)

Btw, yes...Neenga comment pana day is my birthday! :)
//Marutham when is ur birthday?... Anyway Wish you a Happy BIRTHDAY:) and congrats for your 75th post!!//
Thank u so much for the wishes...

Marutham said...

@U r VISHESH,
:o Oh dear!! That is sad indeed....

Hm...yes these things do happen....
And what bothers me is - young children do not deserve this at all!!

Marutham said...

@Ranjhith,
//Never Worry. >:O) // neenga sonna sari dhaan .... :)

//give her some money, for herself to buy something to eat//
Am strictly againbst giving money to kids who r made to begg or even like this... Becoz for sure- the money u give them is not for them at all....They are only used!
Also- i dnt know if she wud at all be let to be away from the fatso...

And thanks for the link...
I shall do what i can...
Thanx again :)

Marutham said...

@Balaji,

Good to see you back here :)

//What a wonderful girl you are! I am really proud of you for your thoughts.

First I want to congatulate for your 75th post. Then for your good thoughts. I appreciate fully your actions. I do not blame you for your inability.//
Thanks a lot & thanku so much for the support :)
Same pinch.....
I strongly believe that there is no human being who is completely evil...And i strongly belive talking to them could always resolve. That day- it was those big bully men she was talkign with - that stopped me. And am not a OVER STRONG(gundu) girl...
But i shall soon go to the same place & this time talk to the lady for sure... She may not be aware that she is wrong..She may be ignorant..There ARE people who are so ignorant to know they are being inhumane!
//I have done some social services in the past talking with anti social elements on personal interest. I have spoken with people of both the sexes and have atleast made them realise their mistakes.//
WOW!! That is amazing.... and thats a NEWS... :) Am glad that i have such great friends - inspirations!!

//On the whole, I am glad that I am in touch with wonderful people like you.//
Oh please..those are my words :)

And yes - definitely i will do all that i can... :)
And I will TRY VERY HARD not run way the next time :D

Marutham said...

@KK,
//I am sure police, will not much other than taking some money from that lady and walking off.
Very nice of you to try doing something like this. Congratulations for your 75th post :)//
Romba sari kk,...
Summa vidradha illa...
I will try to meet that lady - and have a talk...

Thanku for the wishes. :)

Marutham said...

@Gops,
Utkaarndhu rest eduthutu ponga..
No probs....
APPLE JUICE idho... :)

Marutham said...

@Zee,
//really pathetic.....

Definetly we need to do sumthing abt that...//
Yes z...sure'a will do something.

Marutham said...

@Z,
//This is more memorable than the song Marutham....// THAT WAS VERY NICE OF U..
NEXT POST - PAATU :)

Marutham said...

@Ram,
Yes...and very sad too

Marutham said...

@Bharani,

Vaanga kavignarey :D
Medhuva kelunga... :) No hurry...
//25th comment to ur birthday :)// WOW :)
That was too nice...
//....Have a superb year ahead :)// Thank u so much :D

Marutham said...

@Gops,
//Many more Happy Returns of the day...

nalla varusama amaiya vaalthukal..//

THANKU SO MUCH :D

~~~~~~~~~~~~~`

Ungala andha chairla ukaarndhu rest eduka sonna enna ipdi nondi adichu velayaaatu?? :P

Marutham said...

@Gils,
:) Romba sariya soneenga..adhan andraiku me the silent...
//we mite end up doin more harm than gud for them...suggest to contact some NGO who deals with these..//
Sure...Kandipa will do that ..b4 that i shall try to have with the lady first.
Thanx for the suggestions

Marutham said...

@gils,
Inga dhaan -- idhey corner'la iruken...
Hehe sorry - was busy for a few days..adhaan..Now am back :D

Btw- en absence - vitudhu saniyan'nu irukumnu nenachen...u asked! Hehe

Marutham said...

@Ambi,
Hm... Enna padichalum - we can do what we wish to....apdi irundhaley podhum... :)
U r right....
Neraya peru ipdi poidraanga(Poidrom) dhaan :)
I wish am not stuck with -only the profession i am into ... i will try hard not to fail n other responsibilities as a human being.

//I also agree with balaji rajan's point. we could make a diff by having a friendly talk with those pple.//
Sure'a ambi..I will try to meet that lady & talk :)

Marutham said...

@Ram,

:O ahaaaaaaaa

Marutham said...

@Syam,
//you could have seeked help from police//
Illa syam... police avlo nambikaiya valakala innum.... :) I will first try to have a talk with the lady & also report this to some NGO....

And medhuva kelunga :) No hurry....

Thanx a lot for the birthday wishes :D

Anonymous said...

kali kaalam

பொற்கொடி said...

oh :(

பொற்கொடி said...

yup idhu madhiri naanum siladhu pathurken, n when m unable to help the victim out, guilt thanagama azhudu aarpattam kooda senjurken! namma naatla idhu eduvume illama panna romba kashtam, the causes are just too deep to eradicate easily! :(

Marutham said...

@Anony,

Amaam anonymous... !!
It is...
Perayavadhu vidtrukalamey..adress panradhu konjam odd'a iruku

Marutham said...

@Porkodi,
Amaam... Neenga sonna mari its very painful indeed,
//namma naatla idhu eduvume illama panna romba kashtam, the causes are just too deep to eradicate easily! :(//
ROmba sariya soneenga!!

Idhu maranum!