A Good Lunch on a BAD day could totally make things different!

My new proverb .
Yes it was this boring day of the week .And damn! after Lunch break we would probably be having this surprise test( Not that we were not informed but that the test was sure to surprise the lecturer.....None of us had prepared for the test and was sure to flunk if we had to write it.). I was so reluctant to open my lunch box....... I opened as though I never cared about what was inside. But then..POTATO AND MOCHAI FRY(varuval) Hm.........Apram ADA pakathula....TOMATO RICE(May sound funny! its my favourite of those many other favourite dishes ). YUMM!!!!!! And i had never felt so tempted!! I like this combination and amma had never given a combination *COMBI of POTATO AND MOCHAI KOTTAI.But there was no need to be tempted but I was! May be because the day was too boring...Boring than the lunch. I started eating as though I had been in some kind of starvation. And thats it...the food was too good and there came our REP'u with this good news " Maim is absent! No test". That did it all....we were all so happy and I enjoyed the Lunch. And after getting back home I told my mom that the COMBI was great. The whole day was great after the lunch break, It was either because of the food or the virus that had caught our LR'r. LOL
Whatever may it be I am trapped, because these days Amma keeps making POTATO & MOCHAI and expects me to eat 3*(my normal intake). And if my lunch box is heavy in the evening, I keep it in kitchen and run away upstairs (out of her sight for atleast an hour) I can't take the look she gives me for skipping food!!!!!!


"99? What!!!!! what about that 1?"
I have been with a girl who has this (the former -prev post)kind of parents. I very well remember those days as though it just happened yesterday. The picture is still so bright in my MIND! She was my schoolmate(class5,6 not sure but not more than that) "Anushya! If my memory is not fooling me " always used to get Rank1 in the class,and then it was SARU(Saravanan-Sweet guy.We used to spend a lot of time together after shool till our parents came to pick us.He used to tell me all those funny stories,Where the prince crosses seven sea's,And the 1st wife's DOT *'daughter' goes to the forest to collect the fruits and all and helps all the people(Tree,Frog,Oldie,..) she meets on the way and would be gifted some treasure and the stepmom on hearing this would go and not help but try to goto the treasure point and suffer a lot & finally turn into a frogie). Errrr........ where am i.LOST! Ogai! coming back to ANU, it was that time Anu couldn't make it.
There was this flirting teacher who always had an aversion towards ANU and gave her very bad score in two subjects.We had ENG-1 &2. There was ANU, standing as No.2 for the first time. But it wasn't too bad a Mark, ANU & SARU they just had a very marginal difference. And we 3 (Not Saru. Me, Anu and one more girl)sometimes used to comeback home together when amma is busy. My house was at a walkable distance from this school (All my schools that i have studied in, except the1 @ class 12 was at a walkable distance from home).It was this day ANU was so quiet , that was the most boring walk we ever had! We always used to stop a while at the street corner THE AAVIN BOOTH, before we take leave. We many times have spent more than an hour without even realizing it. It would generally start with a KUTTY TALK! That day things were too different, the longest walk with a lot of SILENCE! Then I thought it is better to leave her alone with her thoughts. She was a very strong Girl. Sometimes rude though, She had always been so reserved with the other classmates.
But since we 3 spend a little XTRA time together she was opening up a little bit with us. But till date she is the BEST PUZZLE one can ever try to solve!Even a challenge for LADY SHAKUNTHALA .I thought i could call her when she gets back home and it would be better. That evening after I got back home, I called up ANU's number 49144.....Aunty picked up the phone. I spoke with her for sometimes about the Diwali preparations. She was talking very well & we had a chat for about 10 minutes. Then i asked her" Is ANU there aunty?" And she gave me this stupid answer" ANU has gone to her paati's house da.She would be back by 10"Thats wierd......ANU at her paati's place on a week day. Something is not right"
ANU had a very exceptional grandparents.Ah..ah...Not the Special ones. Generally the one who show you more love than your parents would be Grand parents. But not the case for ANU.They were worse than her parents.They would keep yelling at ANU for everything.And ANU's being at her granny's place is her worst night mare. She has told a lot about her worst experiences with her granee. ANU's Dad was with business, Salem steel or something... He had a huge loss in his business few years back and what every mad man HUGS even before he hugs defeat!!! Alcohol. He started drinking, drinking so badly that ANU has told me ,he would be asleep for more than a day! And yes, ANU's grandparents were so MAD at him. They sure are not good parents too. Instead of helping him getup, they kept suppressing him.
They avoided him and preferred to have good contact with their other successful son employed in a government office. And ultimately, ANU's dad sold his shop and all the shares he had. But ANU's mother tried to keep in touch with her Inlaws. And ANU's granee did not like ANU's visit. So she kept insulting ANU in front of her other grandchildren. Why would ANU goto that stupid lady's house on a day like this? I kept aside all these thoughts and carried on with my day.Next day I was early to school and so was ANU. She kept MUMB. Din't speak much. I tried to engage her with some jokes..but she laughed for the sake. Something else was going on in her mind.As told already She was a very strong girl(Emotionally).The day went on and the bell rang. That day although amma said she would come , at the gate I called out ANU and told her that i would join her. So did I. Even today the walk was as though like reliving yesterdays walk.But then after few minutes i asked ANU why she wasn't home yesterday. ANU tried to lie to me that she was at her paati's place. And i stopped ANU and told her " You were home yesterday .I know that! Because on a week day U @ that house.....I don't belive. What is it that stopped you from answering the call ANU?" She was quiet.
Then i asked her if it was about the rank! Thats it , she gave me that rare LOOK! It spoke it all!!!! Anu started telling...I was home yesterday. And Amma lied to you. She din't want me to talk because i was very UPSET. She had yelled at me for not getting the first rank. And she din't speak anything more but kept sobbing. I was so heart breaken to see some1 so STRONG cry!!And generally people who rarely cry won't know how to stop! So did ANU! She need not speak anymore...I understood what her MOM would have!
And at that age i hardly knew how to console ...but i tried my best and took her to my house.We did not tell my Amma(MOM) anything... because ANU wanted it to be just between us. Amma was always a kind "AUNTY" to all the friends. We spent a little time together and we called up ANU's mom and told her we have an assignment to do together and ANU would be back home soon.She said ANU can take her time because it was SATURDAY.That day i tried to erase all those sick things that creeped into ANU with some jokes, a little Fun, & my other flatmates- we all played so much that day! And ANU was normal. After that day we hardly recollected about his topic or even speak about it.But ANU's Mom.....nothing to complain .She was almost like a single parent. SO she wasn't sturdy enough to take this burden. And without the help of her Inlaws although they were all in a comfortable position or atleast a position to help.
But who to blame! If you ever happen to be in any of these suits, just try to help the little ANU. There are lot of ANU's out there. If u meet parents like ANU's try talking to them & tell them what they are doing to their ward. At that age i was too young to....now it is too late. And who knows where she is? But am sure ANU would be a different parent. And i was stupid enough to keep it our little secret as ANU did say. I must have told some1 who could have helped. But i did hint my mom. She was too kind to ANU.Hope there be no more parents/ grand parents like the one ANU had.
Its been a lo...ng week.
Especially when we were so IDLE, ofcourse it would be a longer week Isn't it? How long can we Chat,Gossip,Yapp,Play too,... we tried everything to keep ourselves Away from BOREDOM!!!!! But no one can change destiny!! The worst part is We had our cycle test... And having been so bored up and not even 10% strength in class ,we were all so boredout that we had no seriousness about the cycletests. And yes I didnot do so good.Especially after the results on 2nd day if you have test .....who would read! It was as though you have just finished your SEM exams and no1 would dare touch the book for 2 days. In the campus while we have a festive coming up , so many BUNKED to go to SAARANG(Let this officially be a secret ) while the other majority was at SPENCERS,all these ON O.D!!!!!!Cheaters never prosper but never fail to HAVE FUN! Haahaa. And we did tell that they were on O.D.Then ofcourse am taking part in the event coming up. I was offered the O.D too. But I preferred to attend the classes because missing clases is the worst thing I can do! I fully rely on MY NOTES for the examinations and may be thats the reason I dont get as many S, but A's and a few S.
My friends kept teasing me that I was the dumbest to stay in the class without availing the O.D . But honestly, I would feel very guilty as though am bunking and going for a movie (Which I have never done) to be absent on a daty where the class wouldn't be empty. I just feel WRONG! Donno why! Even my Dad have asked me to take off few times when I wasn't feeling so good. I couldn't justify why! I just can't miss class. No matter whether the staff is giving the bast lecture or like the other SIr i have mentioned in my previous blogs. And regarding the re-valuation I was planning to apply........things just didn't work. My dad said it is alright to apply for 1 subject and he convinced me from not apllying for the other 2. He says that Re-valuations would generally be bothered for those who have arrears and the others paper may not be given importance........Blah! Blah!And finally the usual thing happened......."OKAY APPA!" And I have my fingers crossed, hope appa's statement be falsified in this regard . Then appa sure would not stop me if there is any NEXT TIME! I prefer there be no more such disappointments.
But I mustn't go complaining ..... Am glad that my parents are not the kind of pestering one's who ask "What 99????? where did u miss that 1?" They are the other kind" 99! Not bad'da.Next time try not to miss that 1,and think what has made you miss it".But not ALWAYS! Infact that kind'a motivates you or atleast do not supress you! I have been with a girl who has the former kind of parents. She was my schoolmate(class5,6 not sure but not more than that) "Anu! If my memory is not fooling me " To read about it see the next post please. TATA!
THE PIC:The angle and reflection was great so i clicked the Glass cup that i had painted.


Sorry GP ,Am a little late!! As our friend has mentioned, this week is International Post A Mug Week, Lets honour them! This is one of my favourite mugs! These mugs make u feel so good, no matter whether the content of mug is going to be good or not!!!!!(SORRY MOM!Chumma velatuku :P) And this MUG is so good at it!!!!!!
GP-(http://humanuniverse.blogspot.com/ )


A little heart to enjoy with the little one’s
These are sooooo cute and you will chuckle!!
7 reasons not to mess with a child
A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small. The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human; it was physically impossible. The little girl said, "When I get to heaven I will ask Jonah". The teacher asked, "What if Jonah went to hell?" The little girl replied, "Then you ask him".
A Kindergarten teacher was observing her classroom of children while they were drawing. She would occasionally walk around to see each child's work. As she got to one little girl who was working diligently, she asked what the drawing was. The girl replied, "I'm drawing God." The teacher paused and said, "But no one knows what God looks like." Without missing a beat, or looking up from her drawing, the girl replied, "They will in a minute."
One day a little girl was sitting and watching her mother do the dishes at the kitchen sink. She suddenly noticed that her mother had several strands of white hair sticking out in contrast on her brunette head. She looked at her mother and inquisitively asked, "Why are some of your hairs white, Mom?" Her mother replied, "Well, every time that you do something wrong and make me cry or unhappy, one of my hairs turns white." The little girl thought about this revelation for a while and then said, "Momma, how come ALL of grandma's hairs are white?"
The children had all been photographed, and the teacher was trying to persuade them each to buy a copy of the group picture. "Just think how nice it will be to look at it when you are all grown up and say, 'There's Jennifer, she's a lawyer,' or 'That's Michael, He's a doctor.' A small voice at the back of the room rang out, "And there's the teacher, She's dead."
A teacher was giving a lesson on the circulation of the blood. Trying to make the matter clearer, she said, "Now, class, if I stood on my head, the blood, as you know, would run into it, and I would turn red in the face.." "Yes," the class said. "Then why is it that while I am standing upright in the ordinary position the blood doesn't run into my feet?" A little fellow shouted, "Cause your feet ain't empty."
The children were lined up in the cafeteria of a Catholic elementary school for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray: "Take only ONE. God is watching." Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chipcookies. A child had written a note, "Take all you want. God is watching the apples.



Think in the OTHER way !
A woman was waiting at an airport one night, With several long hours before her flight. She hunted for a book in the airport shops.Bought a bag of cookies and found a place to drop. She was engrossed in her book but happened to see, That the man sitting beside her, as bold as could be, Grabbed a cookie or two from the bag in between, Which she tried to ignore to avoid a scene. So she munched the cookies and watched the clock, As the gutsy cookie thief diminished her stock.She was getting more irritated as the minutes ticked by, Thinking, "If I wasn't so nice, I would blacken his eye." With each cookie she took, he took one too,When only one was left, she wondered what he would do. With a smile on his face, and a nervous laugh,He took the last cookie and broke it in half. He offered her half, as he ate the other,She snatched it from him and thought... oooh, brother. This guy has some nerve and he's also rude,Why he didn't even show any gratitude! She had never known when she had been so galled, And sighed with relief when her flight was called. She gathered her belongings and headed to the gate, Refusing to look back at the thieving ingrate. She boarded the plane, and sank in her seat,Then she sought her book, which was almost complete.As she reached in her baggage, she gasped with surprise, There was her bag of cookies, in front of her eyes. If mine are here, she moaned in despair, The others were his, and he tried to share.Too late to apologize, she realized with grief, That she was the rude one, the ingrate, the thief. How many times in our lives,have we absolutely knownthat something was a certain way,only to discover later thatwhat we believed to be true ... was not??
Note: I thought it would be something nice to share with you all. I got it as a mail few years back.
Got the results! It was yesterday that we heard the rumor again for the 6th time in that week .But this time it wasn't a rumor. The results are out at last!! And the network was like taking forever to load the result page. And yes atlast the page was there in the screen. With all my prayers& hope i typed in my register number.......Loading.....Loading.......Loading...and BOOM. Yippeeeee..........I have made it through but Shocking, for those subjects that I expected only 70+ ,I have got a 90+, and there was this one subject in which I have scored a FULL INTERNAL & was so confident to get 90+ , it bombed me with just a 70+. What is on with these Examiners??? But glad the DSP is not a Degree Stopping Paper for my case. The worst part in seeing result is , when your classmates(Mostly hosteler's) call you up and ask for theirs and they restlessly keep asking" Have I got through with zero arrears? Please tell me I have cleared all,All clear All clear plz....." and the answer is NO. It is very hard to tell that they have not made it and so far never have we got the results come out right after college time. Mostly it had been in the night or early morning. So they used to see their own (some of the hostel ppl only used to ask). But this time as most were travelling or had just entered their rooms, many of my class mates asked me to see and for few was this Bad news waiting.
And I found it very hard to tell the results to this girl who had recently got engaged & is likely to get married by April. I tried telling her that "The page could not be loaded da.. There is some Server problem. I will see and tell you tomorrow, now hang the phone and refresh, you must have just entered your room."But she was Firm in hearing it, she kept saying " I will be on the line da...Has the page loaded? Plz say i have cleared all! Plz da.. ALL CLEAR ALL CLEAR..." It was very hard to tell her. She became so upset on hearing that she have got 2 arrears(1 in DSP).Then we had about a 2 hour talk and i had to convince her saying if it was me i would have hardly got through in 1 , and she hardly had time to read- she was always busy with various formalities(Ponnu paakradhu, Payyan paakradhu -poor thing she dint see him in person ,he is still in U.S.A. Then Why this formality? These custom!Ponveetar veedu paakradhu,Payyan veedu paakradhu.. Blah! Blah! Blah! ). Then after lot of talking and joking i got her back to NORMAL.Now, we have a topic to discuss (SOME TIME LATER), why do some people get the girls engaged while they are still in their graduation, they must at-least finish their course. And for obvious reasons this is not the case for Boys. What is the hurry for?
Many of my class-mates have not made it through DSP. The worst part it ,those who have so far had no history of arrears have got their arrears in two subjects, amongst which 1 is DSP. This is terrible. To get your first arrears in Pre-Final year! Well after all those hard works & sleepless nights the students finally write their Exam for just 3 hours & then while seeing the results after 3 months of long wait they face their WORST NIGHTMARE- a brand new arrears account has been opened. Why not the examiners give those students a 50 or 50+ and let the student just get through.....just a PASS not Distinction or first class, not even a second class!! And as though they read every line and give mark to only deserving students. Sometimes some of them get their distinctions for their NEAT handwritings with simply no valid matter in the answer sheet while others who have MATTER in the paper but not a NEAT handwriting get simply an A or B. Take my case, Last semester in one subject where I evaluated only a B, I have got an S(Distinction). This time I expected an S for one particular subject and got B. One of my friend who told me she had no idea what that 10 mark Qn was about and had written some crap. And guess what, that crap has fetched her a S in that subject(When you wrote some crap for 10 mark it is obvious you lose a 10 mark and she did not get a full internal in that subject.So she is definitely to get a 70-85.Which obviously can't be an S-distinction. But take my words ,she does this letter dropping in her paper so brilliantly...(purilaya MUTTAI MUTTAYA AZHAGA EZHUDHUVO! ) that you go mesmerized . And in that subject she has got an S!!!!!!!!!!! What do the examiners do while correcting papers, or putting it an other way How do they correct..??? May be put up the answer sheet on a board that is at a considerable distance from their chair and then eat their sojji, bajji, tea and say "Ogai...S" for the bonda's served in that paper, "Ogai B" for a running handwriting, and if there was fly that was targeting his Bonda.."Ogai F-fail"
Well , leaving all that aside I have a news! NAAN PASS PANNITEN!!!!!!We had no time to celebrate the results and here comes the mini Canons...Nalaikku enakku Cycle test aramBikkudhu (I mean , I have my test series1 beginning tomorrow). So, will go now and catch up later. Although I have my own complains about some of my grades (Not too bad but i expected SOME more S. Sometimes I Pat myself for doing well, (;))Ofcourse there got to be some appreciation from my side, other than just being too edgy. ) , am glad I have made through those TORNADO's with out any Hole in my SHIP. And my inner voice is asking me " Are you ready for tomorrows cyclone?? "And I go saying(Have to) I I CAPTAIN!!!!!! And here I go as my captain wish me to......
Cya people!!!


NOT Glass but Floor painting! MY RANGOLI!!!
Yesterday the festival for TAMILS (thamizhargal........)It was too good.Morning we gotup early,had our bath then wore the new dress.And then cooked the PONGAL! I remember.. from class 6 or so i had my own Small(Really small,may be size of my palm)earthen pot. In which i had been cooking pongal. Even till last year i used to make CHAKKARAI PONGAL in that kutty pot. And then we did pooja(I) for the sun god and had our pongal.After that we watched some TV programmes (Pongal specials).Then coming back to the culturals event.We had alot of singing , Dancing, Dumbc, Adzap, Creative events etc etc, Some remarkable events were..
  • Classical dance(I couldn't watch it because i was busy in the rangoli session.)
  • The Rangoli..Most of it was the usual ones.But i did do something new.My theme was to SAVE NATURE! Only if you save nature you could see these in real or just in pictures.(Plz,See page top). The judge was comfortable (stuck)with the old fashion rangolis.He refused to change to the new fashion -the modern art:)))GET THE PICTURE?Ok..lets move away from that topic it kind'a bugs me(Especially with my leg crying so badly that it isn't able to climb stairs ).
  • Adzap...for which we had BOSSKEE(jaya tv host) as the judge. It was good.
  • Variety entertainment..The judge was an high court Lawyer and a girl/Lady who comes in that TOP 10 show on Sun-There were 3 teams that performed really well. One was about the recent tragedy in Tamilnadu. VeLLa nivarana nidhi.........Remember the death of about 47 people. Yes, Mind blowing performance.The theme goes like this, the man of the house goes sick and hearing abt the fund given Lady of the house rushes to the center and dies.The man was crying over the death of his loving wife and the state & central govt comes to the scene and pretend in front of the cameras like they are so worried and then starts blaming each other.Then at one point this Man who has lost his loving wife loses his patience and charges both govt's. The centrals tries to convince him saying that they offered a BIG MONEY and its was the full responsibility of the state...and then state govt says that the Maximum they could give was 2000(am not sure if this is the correct figure.) a family and blast the central saying it was their man who was the cause for this big tragedy and BLAH BLAH......Then this Family man asks the govt " if that 2000 could give him back his wife .....You don't have any human value .For you it is all about money money money........Can you get back my loving wife to speak just one loving word for me.Where will i find that loving face,Where can i hear that caring voice,when will i feel that affectionate touch..................." And a lot of other emotional lines that i went too emotional to remember. And another one the musical play , about how ailing people are neglected and ignored by the society. There was this scene that really had tears roll down my cheeks. It was a person having FITS(Epilepsy) lying on the road given a helping hand by the person who had no legs to walk and was BLIND,also holding the hand of a person infected by leprosy. This play too was good one. Then there was this play about Where not to lose your heart (Falling in love).
  • Light music was splendid. Almost all the BANDS were so proffesional but there was this band from MECH dept. that rocked the whole show. There were melodies like NILA KAAYGIRADHEY...the one that Aravindh samy sang ( act ) in Indhra, KAALAIYIL DHINAMUM (Amma song) from NEW, AASAYA KAATHULA THOODHU VITTEN. One of the Judge was Mr. James vasanthan, the other one was the singer from S5 (Lajjavadhiye)who performed for about 20 minutes (KANMUNNEY ETHANAI NILAVU KAALAYILEY)another playback singer who sang this beautiful song "PORA ey PORALEY PORAALEY",another girl was a play back singer.
  • Then we had the western dance, Judges were A dance choreographer NANDHU,SAI rakesh (Host of jaya tv, also in the series Krishna cottage).

And The CHIEF GUEST was actor SHRIKANTH! He was COOL especially when he looked through his coolers at the students screaming to hear the winners.(Not that am Flirting ,Sometimes it is good to speak out the truth. He was cool) He did recollect about his shooting experiences in our college. It was really good. And i have a topic to have for the next blog. It was the experience of sitting behind a bunch of morons who hardly knew to dance (Decently) but kept getting up hiding us all out here at the back and Shaking.........like it was supposed to be dancing. :)) YUKK!!! Ok To see the brightre side of the whole event. We all atleast have a topic to laugh at, while we are having the boring lectures. The very moment we think of it we burst with laughter.Will tell more about it later.....Iam still laughing !! :))


Culturals was so............GREAT!!!!!
There are a lot to talk about the culturals.......But for now am just gonna go and sleep..Am very very TIRED! I am having this very hard time to climb (Up/Down)stairs, my legs hurt alot.So, before i sleep i just wanna wish, all of you out there a very HAPPY PONGAL! Tommorow is gonna be FUN! And will tell a lot more about the culturals in my next post& about THE PONGAL(Thamizhar thirunaal) too.REAL SOON!!!!!


HAVE A GREAT WEEK AHEAD ...............


Here is a simple personality test that i read.

Judge Yourselves !

You are in a deep deep forest... as you walk on you saw an old hut
standing there
(1) What is the status of the door?

You enter the hut and see a table...
(2) What is the shape of the table?

On top of the table there is a vase... in the vase there is water.
(3) How much water is it filled up with?

(4) and what is the vase made of?

You walk out of the hut... as you carry on your walk in the
you see a waterfall from far... there is water running down...

(5) What is the speed of the water?
(Choose a number ranging from 0 to 10)

Some time after the waterfall... you step on something hard on the
ground... as you look down... you see glistening gold in colour.
bend down and pick it up... it is a keychain chained with keys...

(6) How many key /keys you see hanging on the keychain?
(Choose a number ranging from 1 to 10)

You walk on and on... trying to find your way out...suddenly you
a castle.

(7) What is the condition of the castle?

You enter the castle and saw a pool of murky water with shining
jewels floating on it...
(8) Will you pick up the jewel?

Next to the murky pool... there's another pool... with clear water
and money floating on it...

(9) Will you pick the money?

Walking to the end of the castle there is an exit...you proceed to
walk out of the castle. Outside the exit, there is big garden, you
see a box on the ground.

(10) What is the size of the box?

11) What is the material of the box?

There is a bridge in the garden some distance away from the box,
(12) What is the bridge made of?

Across the bridge, there is a horse.
(13) What is the colour of the horse?

(14) What is the horse doing?
(still and quiet/nibbling grass/running about)

OH NO!!! There is a tornado coming... some distance from the
You have 3 options:
(i) run and hide in the box?
(ii) run and hide under the bridge?
(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?







Here are the interpretations:
(1) The door:
opened door - you are a person who is willing to share
closed door - you are a person who is keeping things to yourself

(2) The table:
Round/oval - any friends that came along, you will accept and
them completely
Square/rectangle - you are a bit more choosy on friends and only
hangout with those whom you think are on the same frequency
Triangle - you are really very very picky about friends and there
not many friends in your life

(3) Water in vase:
Empty - your life is not fulfilled
Half filled - what you want in your life is half fullfilled
Full - your life is completely fulfilled and good for you! Happy

(4) Material of vase:
glass/clay/porcelain - you are weak in your life and tends to be
metal/plastic/wood - you are strong in your life

(5) Flow of waterfall:
0 - no love for your partner at all
1 to 4 - less love
5 - average love
6 to 9 - high love
10 - gone case!!! You are totally mad about your partner!!! Can't
live without him/her...

(6) Keys:
1 - you have one good friend in your life
2 to 5 - you have a few good friends in your life
6 to 10 - you have a lot good friends

(7) Castle:
Old - shows that your last relationship is not a good one and is
memorable to you.
New - your last relationship is good and it's still fresh in your

(8) The jewel from the murky pool water:
YES - when your partner is around you, you will flirt around with
NO - when your partner is around, you will stick around with
most of the time.

(9) The money from the clear water pool:
YES - even when your partner is not around you, you will still
around with others.
NO - even when your partner is not around, you will still think of
her and and will be loyal to her, not flirting around with others.

(10) The size of the box:
small - low ego
medium - average ego
big - high ego

(11) Material of the box (outlook of the box):
cardboard/paper/wooden(non-shining) - humble personality
metal - proud and stuck up personality

(12) The material of the bridge:
metal bridge - have very strong bond with your friends
wooden bridge - average bond with your friends
rattan bridge - you are not in good terms with your friends

(13) Colour of the horse:
white - your partner is pure and good in your heart.
grey/brown - your partner is only average in your heart.
black - your partner doesn't seem to be good in your heart and
appears to be bad sign.

(14) Horse action:
still and quiet/nibbling grass - your partner is a very homely and
humble person.
running about - your partner is a wild type person.

This the last but most important part of the test.
From how I ended the story... a tornado approaches...
What are you going do? There are only 3 options:
(i) run and hide in the box?
(ii) run and hide under the bridge?
(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?

What will you choose?
Now, the above is signified by these things:
tornado - problems in your life
box - you
bridge - your friends
horse - your partner

(i) So if you choose the box, you keep your problems to yourself
whenever you are met with problems.
(ii) or if you choose the bridge, you will goto your friends
y! ou are m et problems.
(iii) or lastly if you choose the horse, you seek your partner
whenever your partner whenever you are met with problems.

PIC:Mahathma Gandhiji Addressing people

A very rare but precious photograph that i recievd from a friend of mine.Thought it is worth sharing with you guys.
That EXCEPT for 1 day.

After returning back from college today I gave some time for me and just me! Dad has left for a two day trip.I went to the terrace & there I was, having a nice view of the sunset & enjoying the evening breeze.But then on scanning the incidents of the week................Here is something that rather puzzled me ,it was about ME! I could hardly hide things in my heart (especially things that I feel people aren't right to me about. Say betray, a strong word tho'..ok lemme put it this way pretence, Cheat, fake, lie or any false statement that they use on me to impress or trap me. Just because I am not rude/silly enough to say" STOP IT THERE, am not the one! Don't try to fool me."It is foolery!) and put a dirty smile on my face and speak to that person as though nothing happened and later take REVENGE. That isn't my formula.......but some times my formula goes against me! Ok! Coming back to this weeks incident that upset me lot......... There was this girl who sits next to me, and to do a task that i had earlier planned , she intervened and told me that i would wait for her and we shall do this together. And almost got a promise like that i wouldn't do it alone and would do it only if she is there with me.This was sounding like a trapdoor for me. But I kind of nodded for that, because she was repeatedly asking me. Then this fine day she was proceeding with this task along with another classmate of mine without even notifying me about this. And it wasn't going on like a secrecy, she dint keep it that way. It was like a child's play. Damn silly!!! This Disappointed me, Irritated me, Upset me.... It was an Untruthful word that she gave me(SHE got the word from me ,actually!) about this task. I did sense it earlier but just gave her a chance. Then when things really got on to my nerve, I decided to talk this over with her.And i did TALK ,no Quarrel, no scolds, and no harsh words. I asked her if that AGREEMENT kind of thing that she made the other day was meant to be one-sided and was it only for me? Now she asked the (USUAL) STUPIDEST QUESTION...."What is it your talking about DA?" There! Wise Huh? Now she has picked selective amnesia! Then I had to tell the whole thing that which SHE HAD SPOKEN TO ME EARLIER.Then she gave me an irritating answer saying that" Aren't you aware that I have started this TASK with X?" So do she expect me to creep over things and get knowledge about what the lady is upto? I asked her this and told her very clearly that she had failed to keep her word for the 2nd time. She can't meddle with me just because iam not making a fuss over the mistakes that she has been repeatedly doing. And it bothers me because ,am the VICTIM here. It isn't going to be hard for me to ignore or insult her the next time. I don't want to pick a quarrel with this person because I really am not feeling GOOD about it. This time I just asked to her give me a decent answer for what she has done in this regard or at-least a justification. The lady hardly looked at my face. Then after few seconds she started mumbling some stupid reasons that were hardly relevant to the topic. Then I asked her to stop this child's play with me and told her "I don't want to be rude so better let me be so. Lets no more talk about this because it upsets me." Sometime later am hearing this SOBGosh! What happened ,what have I done? I hardly remembered all those irritating things she has done!I got so Upset and heart broken! What did i speak that has made her weep. Then i put my hand on her shoulders and said"It is Ok! Calm down. What happened for you to cry? We just spoke over this issue...isn't it? Am sorry if I was rude. It just kept bugging me and I couldn't help myself. i did not charge on u dee, I just wanted an answer so that we could be normal. And you did not give me any.Fine, I told we shall drop this topic.Now stop crying and calm down yourself.It is alright." Then she took few minutes and settled down and started talking as usual.She made jokes on our sir and made me laugh with her and all the regular stuff. She reacted as though nothing happened. I appreciate it but how?Is it my fault or is it hers. Am I the villain of the story? Or am i over expecting or impractical? Or am i wrong with my judgements? Or is it that people are like that. (Going to be that way. Give word and then cheat on us and expect us to be like nothing happened and take revenge later? )In the first place, Why did she say I do this task if she is with me or never do it?And said that she too would do it with me or not do. What ever may the case be ,She could have just told me " No di. I dont think I can keep my word, Iam planning to do it with X and u may proceed with your earlier plans." I could have at-least started it my way! Or is her plan to stop me from doing.I leave it to you! Iam telling this from the deep heart. I was so mad at myself for the whole evening. I mostly talk over the days happening with my father, but today i Didn't. I was so mad at myself that i didn't want to talk to any one. And secondly, I was reluctant to take this silly issue to DAD. But honestly, the whole evening I was so GUILTY and gloomy that i had made this girl cry. I never meant to make her cry. And honestly I wasn't harsh on this girl, I really wasn't. This kept haunting me! Was i wrong? And was the girl just pretending like she was upset(Because if that be the case, she would have taken a little more time to laugh, mock a teacher or giggle.).Now we are in good terms. Hope she don't play her silly tricks any more. Do I have any mistake in my side? DO I REALLY HAVE TO CHANGE MY SELF ABOUT SOMETHING?
The whole week was great (EXCEPT FOR 1 DAY)!!!!!! Especially today! Today being the last day of the week many of my class mates bunked afternoon session classes. And guess what as usual because of very less attendance every teacher was bound to leave us free for the hour. Our college culturals are coming up. I had a plan to join for the VOCAL. But then I had a second thought, since i am going to be in a culturals after 3 solid years..... it is fun to watch than to be tensed and all....May be the last culturals of my TEEN age!!!!!! Today for a change i took the beck bench. And yes! back bench is FUN.....but very VERY HARD to concentrate. My friends hardly let me rest my pen on the note, while our MOST BORING SIR refused to let us free and went on with his lectures.And then all the girls of our class had a nice long chat for the other 3 hours (We girls in our class are so less in number that we have just 2 benches in the class for us out of a total 20 benches).And then clock struck 4 and all of us waved good bye!