I dedicate this post to All those who are staying away from family and especially for those who are {Single} Studying, working, Studying and Working.

The recent few days I happen to meet a number of friends who have been staying away from family.To stay in a new place with totally new strange people and share room with them and live Sharing and caring. Adjust to the totally annoying food system, sleeping routine, new teachers/Boss/ co-workers. Especially those who do a part time Job and do their studies..It really is a tough time for them. And those who do not like the new place and are very irritated with the Culture there. And most of all the Boys easily get adjusted, they are very understanding and adopt quickly and infact they are amiable and quicker in realizing the FACT than girls/us! Some Girls – may be a little not so co-operative. They generally expect things/people to be the way they want it to be –some say it’s the best for them. Some are my class friends, I had been with them for the times they really missed Mom or Dad.

And I could not compensate, but just let them know am there no matter what. I remember my very egoistic friend from the north, She would never expose that she is Hurt or even Sad in the early days of college. I remember the occasion when she had lost her Lab shoe and was crying….We are just a handful of girls in our class and we were all just friends. Not too close. We tried to console her, but our sweety started yelling at all of us “ Its lost ..ok! And I donno where I lost it! It was just here when we all left to the canteen….What do I do? Where do I look for?” Unlike for us, her Dad got her the most expensive Leather shoes for he knew she will be feeling lonely and has to stay away from them. It was just a Shoe but some one got it for her with lot of love and she wouldn’t feel too good to lose it the same week. But then we told her it was ok…We could get some shoe for the lab – A cheap one and did get her one for 150Rs. It was some strange shop at T.Nagar we found for her and she wasn’t standing outside the Workshop(Thats the Punishment if u dont wear The shoes and come ) the next week. Her yelling really annoyed all of us! It is obvious isn’t it? When we are trying to help her out she starts yelling…Then who would be there around?? And It was that day I saw her eyes, Totally lost- helpless, insecure feeling and lot of frustration…It was then I decided to move close to this lady.And now we are great friends and she shares all her feeling with me and another girl. We 3 have a very good chemistry. When ever I see her feel homesick I just won’t know how I could handle something like that…I just cant bear Imagining.We had always been very cautious not to let her think too much about home. That’s the best we 2 could do.And the problem with our lady is She is very Arrogant (Sorry dear!), Non co-operative, adamant, Sometime very Rude too.

There was one occasion when she got so furious for one of the staff making a comment about her Notes…And it was that day we had to tell her…” Not every one is family or even understanding. You have moved away from home to a new place where people are different and culture too. What is so cool in the North may not be really acceptable in the south. And there is no one to complain. If things do not happen the way you want them to be then just let things go in its way and just watch. Because sometimes when things go out of hand it is better to observe where it really is taking us. And later to find that this way was also not that bad it would be a new experience.” And now she is more matured and a very little bit adjustable and is growing polite too. She is very different now. And we ourselves cannot believe this is that person who yelled at us for HER losing HER shoes.

And in the recent days there seem to be a lot of Girls talk between the three of us. May be not exactly..am just a listener and once in a while I tease and pull my friends back to Reality..Donno what has got into these girls suddenly .........so much of Girls talk…SO MUCH! And at times I really had to search for my Friends inside them , they totally get lost and I see just two teenage girls going crazy over JUNKS. In the recent day they find it fun provoking me by teasing me with every guy who comes up and talk to me. Mostly it would be my classmates who are not very friendly to the other girls. All these are tolerable, but when there is any guy standing outside in the corridor just looking inside the class or some at us and when ever they ask…”Marudhu, look there! Interested?? “ And Er… What are they asking- ” Not my Type dear! Now shut up and back to the Bio-medical instruments!! This patient almost died in your note…Look u have locked him in the Chamber and blew up his lung!!” And it’s this period they have the utmost fun. The bio-medical hour. This teacher is very friendly with me and for anything she would ask my note. And every time she comes down to my note my heart beat goes rapid fast for only I know what funny things these 2 had done in my note during the lecture. Will soon scan some of my class notes where my 2 Naughty friends have practiced their Cartoon art in some of the Specimens under study!! FUNNY DOGS!! (Er.....Am picking up this slang after watching KHNH-Stop it marudhu! Stop !)

We have got a beautifull lawn in our campus and at times we go to the park in the central college. And there we have an entirely different FUN time, which I would share with you all real soon. Now am in the study hols for the Semester exams, and I have already started missing my 2 funny dogs and other friends, Batch mates, class room funs, Canteen chats, Long walks we have had….. :( MISS'em. Just an year left
#Ok...Getting back to the dedication part,
So I very well know the hardships in staying away from home, family, Not that I have undergone all that but that I literally am stuck with my family so I really know how it would be to stay away. I have hardly been away from them except for the times I had been to My Aunts(Chithi’s) place @ mysore. I would start crying the moment I get to think about home. Those of you staying away from family,
GREAT GOING PPL!! This post is specially dedicated to you guys!!

PS: I saw KHNH very recently. Great Movie.I myself am too late, If you have not seen it yet - Do see! A great Work from the Chopra's! The Pic on top is from one of the scenes i liked. The movie was so Good & touching that in 3 different scenes i went crying even without my Notice...And to realize am in Tears! I Felt" Damn! Its just a movie...Y cry! Calm down "

PON(50th) POST !!!
Idhellam remba over!!! I dont believe i have posted 50 post in 6-7 months..
And i thought with this post i would make my dear friends LAUGH!! Got it thro Mail...I share it with you here.....

I hope this don't EAT up chikii from the page...(I Don't want chikki post to disappear from this page )

And btw, The other day when i asked amma if there were any post AMMA & APPA gave a smile and said go check it yourself......I went running to the Post box and opened it...Guess what?? There were two kutty EGGS! (I said WOW CUTE'ais) Too small...Coloured eggs! WOW!!!!Must be some of the VERY CUTE WILD BIRDS that i see everyday in our garden. And i came back to amma appa and shared the excitement.WONDER HOW THE BIRD THOUGHT OF THE POST BOX?? And amma appa said.." May be it must have read your chicki post ! Hi I have taken a big risk and here I am with you... And thought ,this would be safest place to start a family :P " :O Appadiyaa!!!! MAY BE! Ok if that be the case we all will provide a happy home for it.We have planned to put a temporary postbox for the ACTUAL Paper posts(No EGG posts :P) Have told our driver, Servent maid and Postman not to disturb the ACTUAL post box...After all thats is the maximum we can do...
Customer care in 2020
Operator : "Thank you for calling Pizza Hut . May I have your..."

Customer: "Heloo, can I order.."
Operator : "Can I have your multi purpose card number first, Sir?"
Customer: "It's eh..., hold..........on......889861356102049998-45-54610"
Operator : "OK... you're... Mr Singh and you're calling from 17 Jalan Kayu. Your home number is 4094! 2366, your office 76452302 and your mobile is 0142662566. Which number are you calling from now Sir?"
Customer: "Home! How did you get all my phone numbers?
Operator : "We are connected to the system Sir"
Customer: "May I order your Seafood Pizza..."
Operator : "That's not a good idea Sir"
Customer: "How come?"
Operator : "According to your medical records, you have high blood pressure and even higher cholesterol level Sir"
Customer: "What?... What do you recommend then?"
Operator : "Try our Low Fat Hokkien Mee Pizza. You'll like it"
Customer: "How do you know for sure?"
Operator : "You borrowed a book entitled "Popular Hokkien Dishes" from the National Library last week Sir"
Customer: "OK I give up... Give me three family size ones then, how much will that cost?"
Operator : "That should be enough for your family of 10, Sir. The total is $49.99"
Customer: "Can I pay by! credit card?"
Operator : "I'm afraid you have to pay us cash, Sir. Your credit card is over the limit and you owe your bank $3,720.55 since October last year. That's not including the late payment charges on your housing loan, Sir."
Customer: "I guess I have to run to the neighbourhood ATM and withdraw some cash before your guy arrives"
Operator : "You can't Sir. Based on the records, you've reached your daily limit on machine withdrawal today"
Customer: "Never mind just send the pizzas, I'll have the cash ready. How long is it gonna take anyway?"
Operator : "About 45 minutes Sir, but if you can't wait you can always come and collect it on your motorcycle..."
Customer: " What!"
Operator : "According to the details in system ,you own a Scooter,...registration number 1123..."
Customer: " ????"
Operator : "Is there anything else Sir?"
Customer: "Nothing... by the way... aren't you giving me that 3 free bottles of cola as advertised?"
Operator : "We normally would Sir, but based on your records you're also diabetic....... "
Customer: #$$^%&$@$% ^
Operator : "Better watch your language Sir. Remember on 15th July 1987 you were convicted of using abusive language on a policeman...?"
Customer: [Faints]

Now you dont Faint ...This is just a forward.Our 2020 will be much worse :P HAHAHA!!!
PS: My brother & his family will be here by tonight*.And day after tommorow My MODEL EXAMS start...GOD knows how am gonna write....Things haven't been too good in college.Somesomething seems to be happening around me...Unless things come to my notice STRAIGHT am gonna be QUIET ,observing...... :) Am finding it very hard -NOT TO BEHAVE INDIFFERENT Hope things get better! LOVE YOU ALL MY FRIENDS!! * This could help me a bit :D SURE! But not with the Models :))

Am Tagging you for the First time!

HEHEHEHE....THE BEAST INSIDE ME HAS WOKEN UP...
So many people have been Tagging others...So now i decided to BACK FIRE.
Am Tagging on...INBHA THUNBAM
Which means Pleasurefull pains!
I TAG…See the bottom of the post.
You have to tell atleast one ...
Here it goes.
For me it would be...
The college bus Travel.
First 2 years i had been coming to college every day in our college bus.BUS.No: 155....Miss u 155! Now I don’t go by college Bus.
Our driver was a very friendly guy. We all call him Anna!All the years till I joined college my school(s) were at walkable distance from our house. I had hardly traveled(Walked) for 5 minutes to reach the school. But the college wasn’t in the city limit. I had to take the college bus. First day it was so Scared! The tension that am traveling in a bus where everyone is a stranger , about the Ragging, about the new institution( After school, for every student entering into college would be like how a cow would feel when his shepherd open the gates and let it go FREE! Although the cow feels there aren’t anyone to control, watch for, or guide only in the path he wishes and it is totally FREE now, this freedom could fear the cow. For it does not know how the new OUTSIDE world would be. Will there be lot of Predators, Foxes, Cute bunnies, and Friendly elephants, Loyal Dogs or hungry Beasts?? However it has to go forward and move on b’coz ther isn’t any comforting controlling hands to protect.) That is what it was like, for me. I dint quite find it difficult in tackling with the so very friendly and Not very friendly and Playful seniors. We did make some good friends. Then I did find some very sweet friends in my bus and we grew very well as friends. The closest circle was Madhu,Madhu2,Krishna,Prasanna,Sidhu,lux, lachu,Valli,….many more. But myself Madhu and another friend- we three had a strong bond.One reason for Madhu and I being so close could be that Madhu was very much like how My brother was in his young age. That is, the way we interacted, and also for some ‘not explainable coz I don’t know reasons’. We did have a very strong bond! For madhu it was customary to sleep in the bus either while coming to Cols or while leaving to home.

I rarely used to sleep in the evenings while coming back because I hardly would take my eyes OFF the window that is because I had hardly traveled so much or putting it this way seen the CITY though I had been living in Chennai from my birth... But madhu use to FALL asleep..and sometimes really FALL OFF/SLIDE OFF.We always used to sit together and I had pleasure in pulling her my side and allowing her to rest her head on my shoulders to enjoy the sleep. And for madhu too it was a sweet moment to getup and see that she had a shoulder to rest in. I also cannot forget the days we used to play-fight for the WINDOW Seat and madhu used to joke to the other friend” Eyy..Vidu da Marudhuvey window seat’la ukartum Ipovadhu avalukku madras epdi irukkumnu theriyattum! Nee paruda :P” And some days we used to talk about issues. Mostly it was about parents-child’s rela tionships,Friends,My lecturers,The class room Fun, criticize about the criticizing teachers, Class mates stupid talks,proposals, opposites(Attracting/non attracting opposites) and lots…Though we had a lot of DIFFERENCE OF OPINIONS. Those were the days I would never forget….And especially during Exam times. We used to be so tired for we getup at 4/5 and travel for more than 2 hours TO & FRO.And we would decide that one of us would try reading till KATHIPARA JN and others wud sleep and she would goto sleep at KATHIPARA JN, and finally all of us would getup at ADYAR! :P We would just laugh and go home.Those nights I had stayed awake till 3 in the morning and I rembr I used ANNA’s room and at 3 would callup other friends and I would goto sleep till 4:30. Those were INBAMANA THUNBANGAL! Often Krishna and prassanna would get into the Bus and get down at AIRPORT to have their DAY OUT and get back to college at 4 and we would all be shocked to see them and ask” Enna rendu perum oor sutha polaya? “ And they say “Poitu ippo dhaan collegeku vandhom , Bus’ku kaasu katirukomla!! “ ====Ada Pavigala!! Padikkavum Dhaanda!!
Now it is your turn.
You tell one such thing in your life that was a
PAINFULL PLEASURE! Please do TAG other friends.It could be their painful pleasure :D
I TAG –

· GP
· Nanyaar?
· Anbae
· Senthil
· Krish
· ME
· Raju
· Anandh prabu
· Kutty
· Vijay ramamurthy
· Anoop
· nabeel
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I Right now have no time to individually visit your page and inform friends.Would do soon…But please take this up sportively!

Marutham on radio

I Sang on radio and won a COOL prize again! ...And here is what happened on a busy day, that I must tell you my friend.

Mostly the victims are Men or poor creatures. They never intend to harm but the ladies…-they never fail to terrify them with their super natural EQ & special characteristics.

If you are still wondering about what am talking about…then here I give the reason. Last week on a fine day this incident happened.We had 4 boring hours of theory where all 4 staffs were like Hitlers children, they hardly gave us a break. On my attempt to stay awake and alert I kept drinking water every time a staff left the class. Thinking that, this way I would not feel drowsy, but then did I learn that I had drunk an 1 lr bottle of Aquafina in just 3 hours! Next what happened….Obvious my bladder could not hold anymore….. I was waiting for the clock to strike 12…I lokked at my watch…11:50,11:52 (Is my watch working??!!) , 11:55,11:58,11:59…..TREEENG! At last…I rushed to the L room. Guess what all 5 cubes were occupied. May be all of them had 4 BORING THEORY and Lecture by SO/DO of Hitler! Ok..I could wait for few more seconds but then I wouldn’t guarantee (:P ). Mean time, I was observing the LADIES looking at the big mirror in the room. Some were doing their hair, some combing, some staffs seeing if their Saree matched their blouses, some girls struggling to get their little SCARY faces see its reflection in a small corner of the mirror (THE MIRROR in our ladies room- must have been the most cruel person in its previous birth. And sad thing is that every day , it has to see the same stupid faces trying to look attractive and only this knows it would happen ‘NEVER!’) And by then something stupid, sad and hilarious happened.

While many of them were enjoying their space on this POOR OBJECT…and me trying to enjoy this scene….some one NEW enters the place.I first quiet did not realize as he walked in..Yes HE! HE is definitely not supposed to be here! And here they go….They all started screaming as if like Mansooralikhan (A FAMOUS TAMIL MOVIE VILLAIN)has entered the ladies room. I was lost for few seconds.

This poor old man (Must have accompanied some of the gardeners who work here…and that stupid person should not have left him alone in a huge building like this where every class room would look the same for this old man) was all shocked, shaken, shivering and PUZZLED! And to my surprise even some SUPPOSED TO BEHAVE MATURED Staffs joined the crue, no one told the man anything but kept screaming and staring! //CHILL Ladies!!// Then I went to that man and told that he wasn’t supposed to be here-It is the Ladies restroom. His gesture told me that he was totally EMBARRESED! And he, with such an innocent child look face looked up and said “Enakku padikka theriyadhuma…Sonna dhaney theryum.Manichukunga! Enaku veliya poga vazhi solluviya ma? “ Which in short means “

He wasn’t aware that it is the restroom for he do not know to read & he asked if I could show the way out”. I felt very sad for him,then showed him the way out and OFF he went! Then I finally had my chance to ……..FLUSH! Got what I said in the first few lines!!! Isn’t that true?? It is ok to express the feelings..but sometimes it is better to control and analyze if there is any need to EXPOSE! After all he was too old and never intended to enter the TOILET. It must have been the worst day in his life! GIRLS..Know if your emotions definitely need room in the situation! Or please don’t waste it and scare people around

Sang again and Won again, on the radio…….This time I will be getting a Cool Walkman as my gift. YIPPEE!!
Here are some of my earlier posts that I wish you could read. I had written this when I hardly knew the concept COMMENTS…..and that people could actually tell you what they feel about your blog.And most of all..I dint spend time finding friends in blog…Even now I don’t do that much but here you are… Thanku! Give it a read when you find time.

OCT & DEC